
Registered: October 02, 2007
Posts: 2
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BOYS
OK THIS BOY WHO I LIKE,LIKES MY FRIEND ALSO. AND SHE KIND OF LIKES HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO?SHOULD I JUST LEAVE HIM ALNOE OR JUST GIVE IT TIME. WHAT SHOULD I DO???????
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Registered: December 30, 2007
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I like Megan87's advice, but let me give you some more in the moment advice (no offense) I think you shouldn't worry about your friend liking him. If you like him, express that to him and her. If your friend has an issue, make sure that you two are clear about what your friendship means, and you're not going to let some guy come in between you. Now Im not saying come in between them if something pops up, but make it clear to your friend that you like him too and ask that she respect you.
I have two friends who, very recently, liked the same guy. The guy "picked" one of them and it came in between their friendship because the "Picked" friend wouldn't respect the asked boundries of the first friend and kept bringing the subject up, drilling it into the first friend that she had "lost". (Not knowlingly of course)It almost ruined their friendship, but they gave up on the guy and fixed it.
You can like the same guy, but only one of you can date him, and thats only if he likes you too. You should make sure your priorities are correct before you make any moves. And Realize that almost no guys are worth the effort, some though.
Hope this helps, if it makes any sense at all! Good Luck
~ Xavier Honre, 14 USA.
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Registered: May 07, 2003
Posts: 7538
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Give it a rest. You are 15, you have plenty of time to chase guys. In the end, your friends are the ones who are going to last, don't do anything to jeopardize that.
"Never doubt that a small group of committed people can change the world. Indeed it is the only thing that ever has." --Margaret Mead
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