first of all you people who are ignorant(not everybody) should read something throughly before repying. that being said i just wanted to state that i may not have been clear on my thoughts on this subject. i never really meant that people should deprive themselves of sexual pleasures, i merely meant that if those people aren't going to use protection(whether it be a condom, the pill or some other sort of contraceptive) and they aren't ready to have children then they shouldn't have sex. there are ways to pleasure one's self without having sex. sex is not the most mportant thing in life actually it is the least important. if it is an unplanned pregnancy the people involved could always ask a realative to take care of the child until they are financially and emotionally ready if they don't believe in adpotion. i personally know alot of people who are adopted and have met their biological parents and they are very happy with their life. when people hear me talk about this subject they automatically assume that i have had a perfect life. my life is far from perfect, i am beginning to believe that i feel so strongly about this is because 25 years ago my mother wanted to abort my sister. if it had not been for my father she would not be here today. my aunt had 6 abortions when she finally wanted to have children she found out that she had gotten a staph infection from her last abortion and could not have any children so for all you people who think that abortion is a good option it is not. the fetus is a human being it has feelings and it has needs and wants, a baby will and does respond to voices, music and touch. the only way you know this is if you have been pregnant.

p.s.
don't down me for my opinion because i haven't dissed you for yours. you need to be more tolerant of other's opinions.

Great post yuognmama. It si nice to hear the personal stories having to do with abortions. You get the most out of those messages. Also, I think that people who have changed from pro-choice to pro-life because of an experience they had with abortion, those people should speak out more and tell the world how wrong abortion is!

I understand completely what you are saying about abortion I will admit that when I founght out I was pregnant I thought about abortion but only out of fear
now I have a Beautiful Baby Boy who is four months old. I don't have any relatives that take care of him I take care of him myself and I will admit that it is hard sometimes but I love him more than life itself and I believe that GOD gives us what we can handle nothing more or nothing less