i am gay and i love girls all times of girls but my girl is white i mean she not all that white my family members don't accept her because she white. i her wih all my heart, and we are planning to get married. do you think we should get married i'm 16 years old i can manage. but again what should i do thonk about i'm a pretty brown skined girl and she a mixed girl with white and spanish!!!!!!!!!!!!! hola back

there is nothing wrong with that.

Yes you can. Lesbian is just more specific. Lesbian is a noun though, so you have to say I am a lesbian, instead of I am gay. Gay is acceptable in its use as an adjective whereas lesbian has no adjective equivilant.

Can't you use the word gay to mean lesbian?

Um . . .

WHY would you get married to a WOMAN if you are GAY?

That is all I have to say about that.

This was written so long ago. And she couldn't even get married because she's gay and that's not allowed in Maryland. But seriously, she doesn't read this forum anymore.

so??? there isnt a big deal about that anymore atleast in my eyes but then again ive dated black guys alot... im white.... if you like a person thats a different color its all good... who cares if someone else doesnt like it???

I think that you are a little young to be thinking about marrige, but I am a little suprised that your family accepts that your gay but they don't accept her though. But all the luck in the world to ya.

I'm sure babylicious appreciates the advice, Sugarzoe.

Or, she would, had she logged on since November 22, 2003.

you are too young for married. if you want you should wait until you are older. It doesn't matter wat color she is. is you love her that all that is has to do. You mom and dad have to grow to love her as much as you do. just give them chance

1. you are a little young for marriage
2. I am against gay marriage
3. the fact that you are of two different races is fine.

woa- much-o-confusion Let me se if I can decifer this
you are gay, and yet you are marrying a girl- wouldn't that make you bi? but are you a guy? you said you were gay not lesbian, and what's up with all the small i's? then you say you are a girl. what is
"i her wih " and " i do thonk".

in my opinion you are too young to be thinking about marriage. you're still in highschool in what 10th or 11th grade? its great that you've found someone but right now you're first priority should be your education and not youre girlfriend. Time will reveal a lot of new things.

You should definitely think marriage through thoroughly before you go ahead with it because it's a big commitment and you're only young. But I wouldn't let the whole skin colour issue bother you if you really want this. I'm surprised that your parents can accept you are gay, yet can't accept you having a relationship with a white girl!