I wouldn't agree that if you are underage sex couldn't be in love. Just most of the time (big most of the time) it's just for releasing hormones then dumpin them a little while later and going for the next person.
And about that, "when your ready" thing. People think they are ready all of the time then die from an STD. she's 1 out of 4 kids that have sex each year gets an STD and they think they were ready. So my advice, when you think your ready wait another 4 months and learn all you can about it. And remember, it's really not all that important...
if you know you are ready, then have sex. it is a great thing, and it is pleasing. but make sure to cover your stuff, or make sure he covers his stuff before you do anything. the last thing anyone wants while being a teenager is a baby. me being a girl, i can safely tell everyone that i have never been pregnant, nor do i plan on it, and it is awesome. trust me, no teenager like me wants to be tied down with a kid. enjoy youth, enjoy freedom, and enjoy sex...just do it safely. i would rather smoke up, and hang with my friends that stay home and take care of a toddler. and guys, just imagin how cool you'll look with a baby on your hip, puke on your shirt, and a diaper bad sporting mickey mouse slung over your shoulder. real hot stuff! soooo.....if i was you, which i am not, i would use a condom. *phew*
sex, drugs, rock n' roll, speed, weed, birth control, lifes a biatch and then you die, so f*** the world and lets get high.
I think that you should have sex whenever you feel you are ready. not when the law says you are old enough to be ready,and not when your partner is ready. Its the most personal thing about you,your sexuality,and if you truly are ready,then I think your good to go. Personally,I had sex when I was underage, and I was in love,it wasnt just lust (for those who think that lust is all teenagers can feel!) and I dont regret it.
Wait until you're comfortable. Don't go **** somebody just because they want you. If you're not comfortable with who they are and their wishes, then wait. It doesn't matter if you're 36 or 59 and have never had sex. (Although that is a long time!) Wait until you're ready! You have all the time in the world. Don't waste something you'll only have once on a pointless person who will probably break your heart or theirs by you within a few months. You're young. Fall in love and be happy! Don't worry about having sex just because it's staring you in the face.
The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on. - Robert Bloch
JAMAICA17 I think that you are totally wrong when it comes to your belief that if you are underage what you are feeling can not be love. That does not make the least bit of sense, so when you turn 18 there is a switch that turns on and now allows you to fall in love? Definately not! I believe that when are very young, 12, 13, you do not yet have the maturity to be in a relationship that would cultivate a relationship of true love but you do not automatically acquire that ability at the age of 18!
Jamaica, how are you underaged if you're freakin 18 years old??? Well, whatever... To each there own and all...
And it really does have a bit to do with love. Actually a lot to do with it. There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them, you just need to feel that out for yourself.
Underage sex is all about lust... inside and out.. there is no question about it and i stand by my point because when people are in the age of youth, its supposed to be fun, wholesome... Underage sex, when a girl gets pregnant, life is never fun and please.... im older already.. im 18, i want to have sex too but not underaged... i think its not love when you have sex when your underaged and especially also, when you have lots of partners. Love can only be applied if you wait for the right guy or girl and not just gamble on the fact that your current partner will be the right one for you and then just go have sex and have fun. Love is all about commitment, loyalty and to me underage sex can never be love, only lust...
quote:Originally posted by butterfly026: It depends on your situation, I think. If you think that you're ready, you have multiple protections, and you're over 16, I think that it's up to you. But if you're lax on protection, you're being influenced by your friends, and it's not sometthing you want to do, it's probably a really big mistake.
It depends on your situation, I think. If you think that you're ready, you have multiple protections, and you're over 16, I think that it's up to you. But if you're lax on protection, you're being influenced by your friends, and it's not sometthing you want to do, it's probably a really big mistake.
~*the only thing that matters is just following your heart, and eventually you'll finally get it right~* -The Ataris
My veiw on under-age sex would probably be waiting for marriage. But like me and my boyfriend have discussed sex like so much but we are trying to not make any mistakes we're going to regreat. I really wouldn't want to do that! But people sometimes forget about there certain standards and they go ahead and have sex. But I don't know!!!
quote:Originally posted by jessythecutie: hiya ppl jus wunderin wat ur veiws are on underage sex and please no insults about it
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