my friend is a cutter and i try to help him.... hes a nice guy but everything i do doesnt help.. he says the only person that keeps him from doing it is me and im aafraid to ever get mad @ him cause he says when im mad or sad he cuts and i dont want hi to?!?! wut should i do i dont wanna lead him to cutting again

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hey

well i wrote that i was a cutter for three years and then got sent to therepy but i never stopped cutting. and its hard to think that people actually care about you when your life has been messed up forever. ever since my parents got divorced when i was 5 and they were like consstantly going to court i was like all weird. but the only thing that seems to make me happy ios playing my gutiar and listening to music. thanks
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the maybe-scary thing is, you arent alone.

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when i was just getting to stop.... that was a scary thaught. to know that people acctualy care and do acctualy want me to get better it scared me to death. i wish that someone would of told me that i was love before hand.... well more like i wish that my mother told me that she loves me (hehe i do still have horrible feelings twards her)

FREE LOVE FOR ALL
AMBER

the maybe-scary thing is, you arent alone.

i was a cutter for years too. then came the overly catholic parents finding their daughter half dead on teh floor, the shrink, the therapist, the threats of the psych ward, and all of that.. but even though i'm someone you now would never imagine doing any of that (i'm an exchange student), its just my way of coping.. only very little and not often, but it helps.. of course, i'd get sent home in an instant, so i'm learning other ways to cope.. but there's not much to cope with here, i'm away from all the pressures of the US, so, like go on youth exchange! lol, but really.. you're not alone

your not alone in anything... i was a cutter from about 9 years... and i will never stop the earges... its hard to quit and even harder to stay quit. theres sooo much to deal with and if you can fins something to do insted of cutting thats the way to go...stay in there... people love you and if you feel theres no one else out there theres atleast one were here for you

FREE LOVE TO ALL
AMBER

yeah. i'm a cutter. just so you dont feel alone in the world with your past secret. you did say it was in your past didn't you?

yeah. i'm a cutter. just so you dont feel alone in the world with your past secret

i dont kno how long i was a cutter 4...i just no it was long..but i have been 1....and your def not alone in that 1 i mean i kno new buncha ppl...most ppl think its this great thing here why? i dont kno i didnt do it cuz i thought it was cool i did it 4 dif reasons but your def not alone in it....you b/f and his family moved away? or just him cuz he was cuttin....if it was just him then yes and no that its fair i mean maybe his parents thought it was the best thing to sendhim somewhere....i dont kno the situasion but idunno i guess i just really dont havea answer to that 1