okay, what would you do if theres this one guy who seems to show up everywhere you are, and only backed off when you threatened to call the cops, but now hes after your best friend and she doesnt care??

or, this other guy whos convinced hes completetly in love with you, has stopped by your house almost every day, even though you had a boyfriend, and even though when he shows up your not home??

I would yell loudly "RICHARD SIMMONS, GET AWAY FROM ME!". The important thing is to be clear, and direct. But always have a beer bottle and a counter to break it on, just in case.


Crazytownfreak, have you ever heard of the band Crazy Town?

hey look at any goth people in here!!

Yes, I agree with Rito. The first thing is to tell an adult. I had a stalker for close to 3 years. I mean a serious stalker. He followed me when I was out by myself. He's hide behind trees outside of my bedroom window. He broke the windows on my mom's van after he and I got into an argument. He choked me one time and left bruises on my arms. It was terrifying!

I had a lot of friends the worked for the PD, and I told them. The first thing they told me to do was collect evidence. Here in TN, you have to have 2 forms of proof. Letters, pictures, notes... anything like that. I only had one form of proof but one cop friend got scared enough for me that he put a restraining order on the guy and if he comes within.. I think it's fifty yards of me, anyway he goes straight to jail.

Be very careful, because people arecrazy!!

Last year there was this one kid that literally called my house 6 times in one hour. I told my dad to yell at him to get him to stop but he still kept calling...so try getting daddio to scare the kid off and if that doesn't work, call the cops.

For the first one, I've learned from experience. There was this kid who would follow me around, to hockey games, football games, softball games, he even joined the GSA because I was there (he's wicked mean to the gay kids in our school). It's weird, but if you're threatening to call the cops, do it once so he knows you're serious (I fortunately just had to tell him that I have filed harassment suits against one of his friends). As for the best friend thing, if she doesn't mind him chasing her, let it be.

For the second one I would just tell an adult. Especially if he's stopping by your house. That's creepy.

-rito