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Registered: January 14, 2004
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Question:
My best friend is pregnant and her boyfriend has just dumped her. She is a freshman and he is a senior. I really don't approve of him and never have. I never thought that I would ever know a pregnant teen, but I guess I was wrong and I am trying to help her as best I can, but what else can I do? She got pregnant her first time and I kinda think that it's my fault because I was the only one to know about it before she done it, but I didn't really try to do anything about it. I told her not to do it and I didn't really believe that she would go though with it, but about a month later, she told me that she was pregnant. I was shocked and she is 4 1/2 months pregnant now. What other advice can I offer her?

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Try to encourage her to get educated about the changes her body is going through.

 
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Registered: May 09, 2008
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the best you can do is be there for her i am a teenage mom my son is two months old the best you can do is be there for her if she needs to talk listne give her support and hugs mean alot shes going to have mood swings and she will bet rude and most of all shes going to get scared but listen to her she will need you to be there for her as a friend!

if you have anymore quetions or comments
my email is holmes_mickey@yahoo.com
Picture of sweetie2themax
Registered: February 03, 2004
Posts: 19
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well.. first of all, ya lil friend does need to keep her legs closed, and u should just try and help her out, and assure her ur a good friend, and try and do all u can to keep her away from this next time, cuz i'm a sistah too, and the last thing we need stoppin us from reachin our goals in life, and especially not a narrow butt boy, stick his dick in our pants.

Peace, and God Bless you and your friend.
Clarice
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Registered: August 30, 2002
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the one thing she needs from u right now is just for u to be her friend. being a teen is hard enough but then being a pregnant teen life seems to change everything on u. just be her friend and let her know u will be with her for the ride... Wink
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Registered: July 03, 2003
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Tell her to keep her legs closed next time, they shouldn't be open. Tell, her to learn about all the pregnacy things. yeah the stuff........ for giving birth and all that. Hopefully you know what i am trying to say. Also, tell her to finish school.
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Registered: February 27, 2003
Posts: 14
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One of the best things that you an do is just be their for her and let her know that whatever happens to her you will always be her friend and you will always love her.
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Registered: October 26, 2003
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silly freshmen
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