Ok I understand all of you girls who may have a flat chest or little in that area are uncomfortable about not having anything and you wish your breasts were a bit bigger.But do you realize the crap that girls (like myself) go through because we have big breasts. Guys don't respect us they just want to get into our pants. (well most of them not all) Why do you gripe about what guys want? I mean isn't it supposed to be what you want? If a guy really wanted to be with you, you'd know it. And they don't want you because of your breast size. I just wanna know whats the deal? Why do you care?

Honestly i know a lot of girls who are really uncomfortable about their breasts. One of my friends had to have a breast reduction operation because her chest was so large, it would actually throw out her back. I guess, as a girl, we just need to take what we've got and accept the fact that we sometimes dont like who we are

I have big boobs and the only thing that i have problems with are bras... and that's because i'm like a 48D. Because i'm overweight. but i don't really mind. they bounce alot...

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Originally posted by hubbabaloo:
Actually, if you think about it, most of the current celebs are completely flat-chested. Don't know why, but they are.

probably b/c most are so young

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Originally posted by Mushroomking:
Oh. My. God.
I can SO relate to this.
(I'm a girl, btw)
I have...rather small breasts. and as such, no boy has asked me out. never will. Personality doesn't seem to matter anymore does it?! My friends tell me I'm pretty,I'm funny...but to the boys at school it doesn't matter. the only thing tat matters is that I've nothing on my chest for them to stare at.
sorry for the rant...

Many guys have taken a look at my chest and asked me if i wanted to have sex with them. be glad that you dont get harassed daily to fuck because you have huge boobs, which for some reason guys seem to think means your a slut.

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Originally posted by hannahj24:
My sisters used to make fun of me for having "ant hills" and now they make fun of me because they can "fit their whole face in my bra" nobody is ever going to be happy. guys stare constantly. honestly, the top thing i judge a guy on, is how many times he looks at my chest!

also, i cant find ANYTHING that fits. i went and looked at prom dresses... oh that was a joy... bra shopping... same story..... shirts... same story.

My sisters used to make fun of me for having "ant hills" and now they make fun of me because they can "fit their whole face in my bra" nobody is ever going to be happy. guys stare constantly. honestly, the top thing i judge a guy on, is how many times he looks at my chest!

I know what you mean and complain about. I'm not overly big chested, but sometimes it's hard to find shirts that fit all over anyway and look good. I think guys mostly go for those girls because guys are very visual and ruled by appearances, of course, that is not the case for some males (I know a lot of guys that are interested in other things.) My sympathies to those girls in that situation if they are, in fact, not fluff-brained!

i agree girlz, im only a A cup but my boyfriend is comfortable wit tat..im only 14 n i still ave time 2 grow just like everybody else !!! if u b nice 2 dem n give m wat they want(as in kisses & affection) they will b fine!!!

Cute girls (as opposed to sexy ones) tend to be taken more seriously. By guys who know how to treat women right, I mean. And those are the guys who are attracted to cute girls.

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I disagree, i can't find anything other than a tshirt bra as im a AA, I really want a boob job, so that i can turn from 'cute' to sexy!

Trust me; Don't.

There's more to sexy than breasts.

I disagree, i can't find anything other than a tshirt bra as im a AA, I really want a boob job, so that i can turn from 'cute' to sexy!

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no boy has asked me out. never will. Personality doesn't seem to matter anymore does it?!

With an attitude like that, of course no guy will ask you out. Have faith in the male sex. Not all of us are shallow-minded assholes who care only about appearance. I know a good deal of guys who would rather have someone with a great personality and an average body than someone with a great body with no personality to speak of. Heck, I'm a guy like that. While I won't say that appearances count for nothing, personality is top on my list of traits I look for. I wouldn't dream of dating solely based on chest size.

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I have...rather small breasts. and as such, no boy has asked me out. never will. Personality doesn't seem to matter anymore does it?! My friends tell me I'm pretty,I'm funny...but to the boys at school it doesn't matter. the only thing tat matters is that I've nothing on my chest for them to stare at.
sorry for the rant...

You are 13. When I was 13, I thought I would never get asked out. However, I don't think it has to do with chest size. I'm not exactly small, and I've had 4 boyfriends since I started dating 4 years ago. My friend, who is quite small, in the same time frame, has had a lot more.

It's not always chest size-- at least not with the guys worth having. Don't put yourself down, either. You will have more time to date later on, and to date guys who are actually worth it and who actually care about your personality.

Oh. My. God.
I can SO relate to this.
(I'm a girl, btw)
I have...rather small breasts. and as such, no boy has asked me out. never will. Personality doesn't seem to matter anymore does it?! My friends tell me I'm pretty,I'm funny...but to the boys at school it doesn't matter. the only thing tat matters is that I've nothing on my chest for them to stare at.
sorry for the rant...

That's probably because the current trend is to be as thin as a stick. Who knows why that's attractive...

Actually, if you think about it, most of the current celebs are completely flat-chested. Don't know why, but they are.

Men are (generally-speaking) instinctively attracted to large-breasted women most likely because they would better feed children. But then, that doesn't explain why a great deal of men prefer extremely skinny women, considering a woman with large hips would be better for child-bearing.

I think it's a mix of instinct and culture. Beauty used to be pale and large. Now it's tan and thin. I don't know.