Ok...My first real "lover" was a druggie. I am dissapointed in that but I did still love him. but anyways... to get the the point i just realized last night that he raped me like almsot a year ago and i didnt consider it rape. So i want to warn everyone out there, that even if he is your lover and he forces you into having sex with him once thats still rape. My ex did that to me one time and i didnt think it was a big deal cause i didnt consider it rape, i said no and he made me feel pressured, he was stronger and scary to me. that was a very scary time and i didnt realize it. so i want you all to tell your stories if something simular has happened to ya'll.
Thanks, melissa
P.S. Sorry for my typos I dont go back and check my typing errors.

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Well I agree with worthwaitingfor, but the thing is i didnt wait, and i still dont want too. I dont regret havign sex, thats not what this board was about.

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I know that's not what this board was about. I was making a point.

So you don't regret having the sex even though it was rape? I'm confused now.

And I don't have a story to share, as I have never had sex ever. I was just throwing in my two cents.

Well I agree with worthwaitingfor, but the thing is i didnt wait, and i still dont want too. I dont regret havign sex, thats not what this board was about. I wanted other teens to be able to post about what happened to them. I do not date druggies anymore. And at the time when i went to his house i didnt know he was on drugs. thanks for your replies.
Melissa

Yet another reason why I'm glad I'm waiting until marriage to have sex....

Just out of curiousity, do you think that someone who waits until marriage to have sex would ever be inadvertantly raped? I mean, I know it could happen. But most guys who will wait to have sex with you until you get married don't seem likely to pressure you into sex after the fact.

How is this a dumb subject? Dumb subjects are things like: Hey is an e 1 here a prep? posted 6 times in boards that have nothing to do with them.

None of my bf have been or ever will be druggies. My friends might think I am weird because druggies "aren't that bad" but i'm still swearing them off.

You can get in alot of trouble if you go out with one, and can end up harming yourself. So just don't date them.