Are there any bisexual people on this site?

My name is Courtney.
I'm 13.
I am attracted to guys and girls but lean more towards girls. I'd much rather be with a girl for the rest of my life but at the same time I am attracted to guys.

If you are bi and wouldn't mind having another person to talk to please Noisemail me.

**Courtney**

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if that is so, and more guys are going to be gays and more girls are turning lesbians, i am even wondering when i could get a real bf before the world all turns into gays and lesbians.

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Why would everyone turn gay? Many things are legal but not everyone does it.

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. She used to have a bf but the bf hurt her so she decided that maybe it is best if she is with a girl...

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I don't know what is going on with your friend, but most people aren't gay because someone hurt them, they are gay because they are attracted to the same sex.

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I mean, even in the past, there were no gay marriages, so why place a new law that it would be legal????

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THere weren't woman's rights until the 19th ammendment.

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i am very much against gay marriages because it is just wrong...

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What amkes something "just wrong"?

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I was always and forever will be a girl.

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What does always being a girl have to do with this thread?

i have 5 very close friends and the six of us all hang out together.... We are all Catholic and only one isnt but she is still Christian... and also, one of them (another of my friends) has a gf and i know that i am not anti-gays or anti-lesbian and we do accept with what she has decided... She used to have a bf but the bf hurt her so she decided that maybe it is best if she is with a girl... We never hold it out against her and i am never against gays or lesbians.... although i am very much against gay marriages because it is just wrong.... I mean, even in the past, there were no gay marriages, so why place a new law that it would be legal???? if that is so, and more guys are going to be gays and more girls are turning lesbians, i am even wondering when i could get a real bf before the world all turns into gays and lesbians.
anyway, i have never considered nor thought of the idea of me being lesbian or bi or whatever... well, when i was a kid, i used to have really short hair but that was because my mom was the one who had our hair cut and it got shorter and she didnt mean it to be...... I was always and forever will be a girl. Straight girl... hehehe.

Ok its sent

I don't mind, go ahead.

ok well I do have a reply to your question, and I have a question for you.This is all getting to personal to discuss over a board, do you mind if I NOISEmail you?

I know because I've always known, in a sense. It just makes sense for me. Its not an impulsive thing that I decided one day, its a trait that has become evident as I've grown older.

It is hard to explain, because really, it is something only you can fully understand. Can you really explain how you know you're straight besides who you're sttracted to? It's much the same way that someone can say for sure that they are straight.

I didn't mean to make it sound that because I'm older I know everything, I just meant that since I once thought that I could be bi and now can tell my feelings apart that I was no longer questioning, I know for sure. I think that it isn't unnatural for a young teenager to believe that they may be bi, but I still think that she may not know for sure. Then again she may, whos to really say. It's just that when your younger you tend to get more confused on these things. How do you know for sure that your gay yogore?

Amen.

Well, by saying that because you are older, you know for sure, then that is saying that age = knowledge. Age has nothing to do with how well you know yourself.

I agree that there are some people who think they're gay or bi and then realize they aren't, but that's not always.

Just because she is 13 doesn't mean that she is too young to know whether she is bi or not.

I do think hormones can affect some people making them think they are gay or bi or whatever, but studies show 10% of the population is homosexual, so it's only natural that some would know at younger ages. And there really aren't too many teenagers proclaiming to be bi/gay at early ages. There are here on YN, but it has a high left-wing population.

I know other people have the same opinion of you, but I didn't see their posts.

Hm, ami the only one here that doesn't like the member from the same sex? well, more power to ya, it's great you can talk about it without anyshame. kudos.

I never judged anyone. And if you go back through the other posts, there are people that said the samething as me. I just think that she shouldn't just assume that shes bi based on a strong feeling she had for someone. She has some much to learn about her body yet let alone another persons. Thats fine yogore that your gay or bi or whatever it is that you are,I have nothing against them people. I just simply stating that she is too young to know what these feelings are for sure. And I never preached age=knowledge. I was just simply stating the fact that I am old enough to know what I like for sure, without mixed feelings. Whe your younger you tend to get mixed signals and not too mention hormones are tunning wild.

I just don't see how you can judge everyone by your experiances alone. SO you turned out not to be bi, but that doesn't mean that all teenagers will.

I don't think you can preach age=knowledge. Things come at different times to everyone, and perhaps knowldege on your sexual orientation just came later for you.

p.s.-- I don't know if this has been said or not but asexual is where you can reproduce on your own, without needing fertilization. I do believe that earthworms are asexual.

Well yogore, I know that I'm straight because I am 18 and old enough to realize what is attractive to me and what is just closeness. I once went through the stage where I questioned myself but came to realize that I was in fact heterosexual. My point was that she may think that she's bi. She may be mixing her feelings up is all. I don't think that age 13 she has even done any sexual activity (atleast I hope not) and she wouldn't really know what it was like to be with either so she wouldn't know what she would perfer. Then again I could just as well be wrong, whos to really say.

How do you know you're straight then Ohio?

I agree, not everyone knows if they are gay/bi at 13 but some people do. You have to give people the benefit of the doubt that they know who they're attracted to.

Your 13, how would you know what you wanted for the rest of your life? Especially something like this. I don't get it! My friend thought that she was bi then when I actually talked to her about it, she saw that she wasn't. Just because you feel a cetain closeness and security with a person doesn't nessecarily mean that your attracted to them.

We all go through that whole "Am I gay?" thing. Perfectly normal my friends. Though, I disagree...I don't think everyone is bisexual. You may think a certain gender is more soothing to take an extra peek at, but that in no way makes your sexuality what it is. I'm glad so many people are open about their sexuality. Though, in real life, it is much different (here at least). Around friends its almost as if I can't even talk about it. The people I am around say they don't care what I am, but (especially around females) I still get that weird "Oh god, I hope she doesn't think I have a crush on her and think I'll be staring at her *** cheeks all day" kinda thing. People generalize gays too much. They think we're only in it for the ****ing sex. That is one of the most idiotic, senseless comments about gays I've heard. To me it seems like females who like other females aren't as accepted, or get excluded by the females themselves. (Here at least)
...Asexual?, bwahahaha! I'm the exact opposite of asexual. I'm a pansexual. (for those of you know dont know, it's being attracted to males, females, and transgenders)
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Personally I think everyone is Bi, at least somewhat. I believe that people just tend to lean one way or the other. Personally I am much more attracted to guys, but I have had brief instances where I have been attracted to a girl. I can't really see doing anything sexual with a girl, though. I just think girls are generally better looking than men, their just nicer to look at. A beautiful woman is better looking than a really hansome man.

It's also being able to break off a finger and produce another you.

But I'm more or less "asexual." I hold little feelings for either sex or gender. Given, I hold some, but very very few. I'm sorry, but people just disgust me too much for me to be in any lasting relationship with someone. Besides, humans are too vulgar for me.