
Registered: July 31, 2005
Posts: 43
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HI IM ONLY 14 AND I HAVE TWIN BOYS. I LOVE MY BOYS SO MUCH BUT IM SCARED THAT WHEN THEY GET OLDER THEYLL HATE ME. SEE IM BISEXUAL AND IM A SINGLE MOM. IM AFRAID THAT MY BOY'S DAD(WHOS STILL IN THEIR LIVES) WILL TELL THEM THAT IM DISGUSTING AND A LOT OF OTHER BAD STUFF. MY BABIES DADDY IS TOTALLY HOMOPHOBIC AND I DONT WANT MY KIDS TO GROW UP THINKING THAT THEIR MOMMY IS A SICK WEIRDO. THEYRE ONLY 1 SO IM NOT TOO WORRIED ABOUT IT NOW BUT ILL HAVE TO BE IN A COUPLE OF YEARS. I RECENTLY DECIDED THAT IM GOING TO TALK TO THEIR FATHER MIGUEL AND EXPLAIN THAT I DONT WANT THEM TO THINK BADLY ABOUT ME. IF YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE ON WHAT TO SAY PLEASE REPLY. TXS.
NO REGRETS...NO WORRIES.
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Registered: December 11, 2003
Posts: 9501
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Hah. People should plan it when they tell a fallacy.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: July 31, 2005
Posts: 13
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wow.twins? what a coincidence; i have twin girls!! ashley and anna. and two boys who arent twins, kyle and kevin. all i can tell you is to not make it sound like it'll kill you if he tells your kids that. and to tell your kids that your feelings arent bad and that they wont hurt anybody unless you want it to. they're your babies, hopefully they'll understand and if they don't maybe they'll look pasdt that and only focus on how much they love you.
4kids,3women
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Registered: March 09, 2004
Posts: 2913
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let me guess youre asian or jewish. also how old was your mom when she had you?
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