How tall are you? what is your body fat%? you can weight alot and still be healthy or you can simply just be fat. Like someone else said there is someone for everyone. I also think your judging right now too by generalizing all males as only caring about looks. Everyone judges its not nice its not fair but its part of life.

Why does anybody judge? If you say guys judge more than girls than you are doing something much worse than judgeing.

Hey, I agree with you but you're not fat. I'm 224 and I'm 2 years younger than you, and I'm not, I repeat NOT overweight. That's what the doctor told me. Once again I agree with you that guys should go for more than looks.

Evy

I'm not a guy but i have an opinion. You're making your self look bad by doing those things 1st of all as they say there's someone for everyone. Are you trying to loose weight? I have alot of friends that are big but they have great bf's because they have a great personality. Think of it if you were my size I weigh 106 (u prolly hate me now b/c of that) but alot of guys dont like me b/c im skinny they say they can break me but they can't. Dont get me wrong i've had plenty of boy friends. I'm in a relationship now with a U.S. Marine but hey we're both kinda skinny lol. if guys didnt judge how would they kno what they liked? I think it's good they dont just go for anything.