Ok - this thread is in repsonse to the "best body part" thread I was reading recently. I would just like to make a public announcement that girls need to get their heads on straight for the following 3 reasons:

1. All males are not looking for sexual favors.Most guys see a girl that they find attractive and walk up to them hoping to at least talk. Then if talking goes successfully, they attempt to get a number or a date. Granted guys get h0rny when they're around attractive girls, but that doesn't mean that whenever a guy talks to a girl they want in their pants. I happen to know a lot of guys who would like to have someone they could hug and kiss and sit at home and watch a movie with (and actually watch it.) Guys look for girls to share things with, along with some physical things.
2. Girls want physical action just as much as guys.They just don't want to admit it. I dated a girl for a long time once and all she wanted was sex, sex, and a little more sex. I wasn't complaining at first, but hoenstly after a little while it gets lame. Girls don't understand that if guys find out they are h0rny like hell too, we're not going to judge you. For cryin gout loud, WE ENCOURAGE IT!
3.Guys wish girls were more aggressive.Most girls find very aggressive guys repulsive. Guys find some girls (that are s1uts) repulsive, but aggressive girls turn me on! I'm not going to lie here. I think most guys are in the same boat as me here. If girls would grow some balls and go through the process that I described in #1, the world would be a better place. Girls wouldn't have to hide the fact that they aren't as "angelic" as they like to pretend to be, and guys would be a lot more satisfied, and probably a less aggressive and "needy" for sexual activity. It the forgbidden fruit syndrome: girls act like the guys can't get it, so the guys want it more. Its only egging us on more, when you think its pushing us away.

In conlusion, I would like all females to stop and take a look at thier lives and thier experiences, and apply my 3 wonderful reasons. Although you may not admit me hitting the nail on the head, you will know in your heart as all the males of the world do, that guys are NOT always wrong and h0rny. Well, we may be always h0rny, but its not any different from you.

Now you may harass me...

inky: good questions. what i was trying to say was that girls don't admit a lot of things. granted i went to some extremes because i've had some "experiences" in the past, and i may be a little bitter (thanks bex ), but you seem to understand where i'm coming from. you said that m@sturbation isn't normally talked about, even though a lot girls most likely do it. so you're fine in my book. its ok to be protective about virginity because you only get one, i'm just peived at some of the females...

and for your other response: when girls are present guys totally change how they act. a lot of times they go off the deep end with sexual stuff because they are trying to fit the stereotype that we all have. if they don't rumors could arise about someone being gay or something so its a safety blanket for the guys. maybe thsi thread was a bad idea in general because men will never understand how women think and vice versa. i dont know...this is too much thinking for now

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too bad you've never listened in on a guy's locker room convo...

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I hang around with guys a lot… maybe it's toned down a bit cause of girls present, but it's been known to get cringey. Most offputting lunchtime event was when Dave's girlfriend brought a porn mag to our table, over 50s stuff, uuuurrrrrrrr and Dave showed one of the pictures to the whole table! Without warning us! And I was eating… I'm scarred for life.

But a girl initiated that. Just goes to show.

Yep, I agree with budwurm about girls being as ***** as guys etc… found the "grow some balls" comment a bit funny tho
Girls want sex too, m@sturbate etc (not all of them, but probably most yes, difficult to gage because a lot of girls don't like to discuss that). I agree with all of that. I found the aggression comment a bit confusing- what do you mean? Girls should be more forward about sex? Or just more forward about other things?

Do you think girls are a bit more threatened by sex though? Probably not after losing virginity, but before the first time… I personally feel a bit that way, I can only take it slow. Still a virgin and it'd take a long time for me to get that comfortable with a guy, I'm quite protective of myself. Is that just down to my character? I guess I'm quite a guarded person. Or is it something most girls experience, that's different from the way most guys feel? And if so, then why is that?

Just curious…

Inky

Males are sexual predators?

In a simpler form, yes we are. That's what guides our evolution, the hornier guys spread their genes more, or at least used to. And since in our species females are smaller physically, it just kind of evolved to fit that well.

Think of insects and spiders and other things though...the male is still the sexual predator...and yet who get's raped?

How would you know most girls m@sturbate, bud?

Have you been peeping through windows again?



Don't say evil things like 'all girls lie'. I am sensing some bitterness from you, bud. You need to just take a deep breath and let it go.

Bex

sk8erprep: i have a close friend who is a girl whom i talk to alot. i was talking to her one day about m@sturbation, and she told me that her best friend of 7 years refused to admit that she m@sturbated until after a an intense interrogation. yes thats right, even girls that talk about everything to each other (and believe it or not i know pretty much everything girls talk about because i have really close girl friends) won't admit things that they think will create some sort of reputation or things that they feel ashamed of. and you think girls talk about stuff that would scare guys...its too bad you've never listened in on a guy's locker room convo...

SEX IS FUN FOR ALL!!!!!

ok being non-agressive isn't working for me! i must have sex!!!!

k ya'll may proceed

much luv

~*FOXY*~

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Girls want physical action just as much as guys.They just don't want to admit it.

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Not true, at least for the lovely girls I know who have no problem admitting that they are not virgins, or that they **********, or whatever it is.

excuse you! I don't lie about stuff like that and I know a ton of gurls that don't either. I know this because we tell each other everthing. Guys would be scared if they what all we talked about!And guys lie just as much

sorry...that word was supposed to be m@sturbate

but, just because you claim not to lie about things like doesn't mean the other 99.999% of women in this world don't.

Have some faith. Not all girls lie and plenty of us are not ashamed to admit that we drink, smoke, have sex, or whatever your litle bleeped out word was suppossed to say.

personally, i've found that just about all girls are liers. all this stuff you guys are bringing up right now, i've heard tons of times before. its like a girl saying they don't ********** because its the "right" thing to say when i know most of them do. just admit your mistakes and try to change...thats all i ask.

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everyone does it

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Hmm… That's debatable…

Bex

OK I don't think that girls are innocent. In fact I know they aren't. My friend wanted to have sex with this guy because he SAID he loved her and was moving. And I know girls who are so entranced by a guy that they will have sex with him just because. But I have gone out with a guy that all he wanted was sex. Or atleast fo me to give him a blow job. (we broke up real soon) I was talking to him last night and he has changed. And he changed just for my best friend. And he met her and waited until he got to know her before asking her out. So I think that girls are just as guilty as guys!

True, very true. But... The reason (maybe) that (some) girls are like that is the pregnant or HIV/AIDS, STD thing. The guys don't get pregnant so what do they have to worry about (of course, getting HIVE/AIDS, STD's and getting the girl pregnant) but (I think) us girls think of it more. Yes, some girls and guys are really h0rny but who doesn't get h0rny once in awhile? I also think, that some girls think we will be used or raped (yes, this can happen to guys too.) But that's what I think. Yes, I know. I'm an idiot. So just ignore me.
-JM

the gals are wilder than the guys! you would not believe it! me and some friends R hangin out + stuff., and these girls come up to us in a rel "sexual" type of mood. of course, some of the guys fell 4 it, but i just ran to the john and puked! i couldn't believe how nuts they were going! one of my friends also pants girls A LOT and has never gotten in toruble 4 it. what a weird world....but although i haven't found a girl yet wo was near either my intellectual level or doens't want sex.

there's a diff between walking up to some random person and being around people you at least know a little bit. Sex is not taboo to me or any of my friends, everyone does it...why try to hide it? That's why kids these days don't understand sex, everyone is affraid to talk about it. Grow up everyone...we talk about eating...so what's so bad about talking about sex? What is so bad about understanding eachother and our bodies? Am I saying you have to do it? NO! But don't run around telling people what to do, and most of all stop pretending sex is a big sin...it isn't.

hey, well you know...I think that girls don't ALWAYS think that they are angelic. I mean,
I went to school with some grls that were just the opposite, so don't make asumptions Budwurm.
Oh, and by the way, YES I agree that guys don't always want to get into a grls pants but hey..
sometimes they come off as if they do so what are grls supposed to think? they are just ****ing around?? Boys will be boys?
so, maybe if you guys would stop coming off as so aggressive and wanty and needy for some grl time...then maybe grls wouldn't make the asumption, that offends you so much, that you just wanna get in their pants.
just some advice. and i agree, guys have feelings too.

swimem511: i totally agree. good point. i'm stating that i am tired of being put in a position that isn't true. i just want girls out there who don't think like you or anyone else who gave input on this to realize what we are all about. i know this is cliche but so true...we are people too, we have feelings.