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Big difference, and I am not interested whatsoever in getting into bed with anyone I see that is "hot."

Not anymore, at least.

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So..... you don't want to hump me anymore? Aw damn.

Hm well that sux. I hate to say it but I am forward, I am forward as all hell. I'll ask how big a guy's member is (even if I have no intention of ever seeing it). I ask for numbers, I ask if they want my number. Some may call me a s1ut, I don't think I am, I just enjoy sex. But now, I must go think about being less forward.

*think*

Damn, it's hard. I just say how I feel, I don't think sex should be a taboo subject. I just say it how it is. But that sux that I can't get a guy to like me over something like that. Hm.

*tries to be less agressive*

much luv

~*FOXY*~

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...that doesn't mean that whenever a guy talks to a girl they want in their pants.

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So true.

I'm sometimes looked at real weird when I go, "Oh my gosh, that girl is so incredibly hot."

I mean, there's a difference between thinking a girl is a hottie and then saying, "Dude, I would so hit that."

Big difference, and I am not interested whatsoever in getting into bed with anyone I see that is "hot."

Not anymore, at least.

Not all girls pretend to be angelic. I'm in a pretty tight group of friends and we all, well, aren't too angelic. I mean we aren't bad we just aren't superperfect. And we don't pretend we are either. And the guys know this and they still like us. (Ok, not everyone but a lot do.) A lot of guys realize that girls want to get some to, and a lot of girls realize that that's not all a guy is after. I think you are giving neither side enough credit. But, if everyone could just loosen up, be themselves, and not have to worry about it, everything would be great. Too bad it's not.

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Now you may harass me...

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...lol...lol...

sweet day.

Girls aren't all totally clueless about guys.

I know guys aren't just looking for sex, although I think sex drive is stronger in teenage guys than girls. Not saying that girls don't have any sex drive, just that the entire attitude to sex is different. For one thing, for girls it's probably going to hurt the first time. For a lot of girls, I think, sex is a scary idea because the guy has the capacity to actually hurt them, or use them, and because it can be seen as an invasion of their body. Exceptions to everything, but the girls I know tend to be cautious about sex because for us it's putting ourselves in a vulnerable place. It's true what you say though, it's not like girls don't want sex. One of my friends said she didn't want to start having sex with her boyfriend because she was worried she'd want to do it all the time.

I agree with Jen, give us some credit. I have a lot of friends who are guys and I don't think they're sex-obsessed… Or if they are it isn't at the expense of a girl's feelings. Having normal sexual urges doesn't automatically make a guy shallow and callous, I know that.

Bex

I don't automatically assume guys are looking for sex. Some guys, sure, if they're known for it or if they feel the need to converse with my chest, I'm going to be a little leary of. But mostly I see guys as just regular human beings, looking for the same things I am. A little bit of physical stuff, a little fun, a little emotional stuff. Just whatever. Somebody to hang with, and maybe something more (hopefully). I think maybe you aren't giving us girls enough credit here.

Sorry everyone, but as I was thinking about what I wrote on this thread I realized that I had left a 4th reason out. So here it is:
4. Think before you assume.Girls should think about something before they assume a guy is trying to get laid. Is it at all possible that this guy is loking for someone to share experiences with or someone to grow old with or a soul-mate? NO! Of course not! At least girls don't think so. Eventually, you will find out that guys are good people just like all your friends that you tell everything to while you wipe after you pee (sorry I had to throw that in there...I never understood that). But anyways, just realize that you're gonna have to marry one of us one day...so stop dreaming.

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If girls would grow some balls

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Other than the disturbing mental picture that gave me, I completely agree.