This is kinda embarressing to write but.... I have never kissed or made out with a guy before. I am waiting for the right guy, the right moment, the right place, and the right time. Is it wrong to wait for all this or should I just forget about all of it??

Waiting is good. Nothing wrong with it. In some countries kissing is a huge thing and I think U.S. culture sort of lowers down the personal closeness of kissing. Did that make any sense? I'm 15, never been kissed and never dated. I don't want a relationship though. I have too much fun being 15 to worry about relationships.

Your first kiss should be special. It's something you'll remember forever. I made the mistake of my first kiss being at a party with a guy I hardly knew. Now I really regret it.

It will come naturally. My first kiss real kiss was with an experienced guy but he didnt even notice. You can just go with the flow. And yes you can wait for the right person and the right time, it is a sweet gesture.
Melissa

some how kissing just came natural to me!!im not showing off but i mean all "things" like that do.just get into it but dont try too hard and little hint.a light bite right at the end is something that will drive any guy crazy!!

My very first kiss was cute because we were like 2 in the sandbox. My first "real" kiss I guess you would say was in 6th grade. And my first kiss with my first serious boyfriend was in 9th grade. All three of these kisses I will remember forever. I will also remember my first kiss with my prom date this year because I thought we were just going as friends and then whoa! Anyway, it was funny. For me, maybe not him. I don't think he was aiming for the cheek. Anyway, the very first one is always the one you will remember. And like Celtic said, everytime you like a guy SO much and he likes you back, it makes your first one with him indescribable. (if that's a word) Sometimes, if the guy is special enough, you can get that feeling every single time you kiss. That's when you have it made.

let me tell ya, kissing in any way feels good.

but kissing a guy for the first when you like each other a lot (when hes the right guy) is a feeling so unique, so special, you will wish you could turn back time and do it again. it's so great, delicious, pure, wonderful, perfect. theres nothing, NOTHING like it. so if i were you, id wait to get that one special kiss.

-arianhorn

One minor note- first kisses almost universally suck. Whilst I'm all in favor of waiting if that's your decision of which is emotionally healthy for you, don't build overly high expectations of the physical payoff. That comes into your third or fourth kiss.

I think the fact that Ugottaluvme is waiting for the right guy for her first kiss is really classy. There are women out there who are waiting until their wedding day for their first kiss. I think not kissing at every chance you have just shows strength and class. It's okay that shes waiting. I mean who really finds a right guy at 13? A right anything for that matter!

I mean, I didn't get my first kiss till this year, and I don't agree that making out is something to do just because you can. It's good to wait, it'll help you make the right decision to make out with someone you truly love and care about.

Since making out can lead to other things, it's best to wait, you're making the right decision.

Peace.
Clarice

Like, OMG!, I don't, like, know what, like, you're talking about. I, like, always talk like this. Totally.

Hey, i have the same situation with you Ugottaluvme3. I mean, yes i do like guys but i havent been in a relationship before nor have i kissed i guy. I guess i could say i really want the right guy to kiss me, be intimate with me like making out... I dont really know what will happen in the future but i am also considering it would be nice if a guy will kiss me, just on the cheeks not making out of lip kissing coz i will only reserve that for the right guy who will love me for me, not because i am his for the momemt or just some sort of fooling around.
A kiss is special.. It can hurt, can make you happy and it can also be one cause of jealousy.
So.. for me, i havent been kissed yet but if taht day comes, i shall truly savor it.

Dude, you're SCREWED for life... Just admit it... EVERYONE has made out with a guy at THIRTEEN! Loser. Much.
-Sunset

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For Outspokenme:You made me gag with all the "Like"s and with the"OMG!"

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It's a little thing called sarcasm.

Well I think that you should kiss a guy, it is just a kiss. Now if you were talking about sex then I would say wait.

For Outspokenme:You made me gag with all the "Like"s and with the"OMG!" I hope you were joking or did not realize what you were sounding like.

Anyways, Why do you care so much? Is it really that embarassing? Dont become a skank just like every other girl on the planet(excluding good ones)Guys like girls that respect themselves not the floosies who have been around town and back.

Thats fine if you want to wait, honestly I did too, but making out is not that big of a deal, so don't hold back if you think it's right.

you will get AIDS.

It's spelled cooties.

I'm 13, too. Don't worry, boys still have cuties.