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Picture of peaceandlove
Registered: February 22, 2007
Posts: 3
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Every single relationship WILL end badly. Either someone cheats, lies or dies. One person leaves another person. And in the end someone always gets hurt. i just dont see the point to loveing anymore. Friends? sure. Family? sure. Lovers? love can just go piss up a flag poll. Its not gona get me to turn into one of those girls who eat a pint of ice cream cause of some girl/guy.


Heels are a male invention designed to make women's butts look smaller... and to make it harder for them to runaway.
Picture of ChaosSplintered
Registered: August 05, 2006
Posts: 360
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Sure.
Every single relationship MAY end badly.
Not WILL.

Will is an absolute, and doesn't make much sense to use in something so volatile.

But think of it like this metaphor.

You're given a set of two chemicals. You may mix and match any of the chemicals as you please. You'll have roughly 70 years to mix the number of chemicals. If you mix two correct chemicals, they will miraculously form the cure for AIDS, and will be given to the people.

But beware. If you mix the wrong chemicals, you'll blow up and die. It is more likely to mix the wrong chemicals, then the right chemicals.

Do you really want to NOT take that risk? You've got nothing else to do.


Cheated the way from fringe to elite. Clique of stylists, rounded illogic skipping a beat to a dead cert. By lheaving charges and bursting the abscess, with a forked toungue, bloated with courage and spewing self-importance. Drop your sights, aim lower, leave umblemished those with real power.
Picture of superchuckholly
Registered: September 17, 2006
Posts: 35
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not all breakups hurt someone.

such as my cousin Derek, who agreed with Laurel that they needed to break up. it felt sad but neccesary.

making someone sad isn't neccesarily hurting them


///well, the way you pulled the fuzzies from my sweater...
Picture of ampmaster
Registered: February 22, 2004
Posts: 13981
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"Better to have a loved a lesbian and lost then to have loved a straight girl who ends up ripping your heart out"
-Me to one of my RL lesbian friends


"The very existence of flamethrowers proves that sometime, somewhere, someone said to themselves, "You know, I want to set those people over there on fire, but I'm just not close enough to get the job done"."
Picture of EarthGoddess
Registered: January 15, 2003
Posts: 3719
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quote:
"Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."


I fucking hate that saying.
Picture of Ikki14Reed
Registered: August 17, 2001
Posts: 5812
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quote:
"Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."



It takes forever to get to that point after a loss. I wanted nothing to do with people for a few VERY SHITTY months where I couldn't stand the pain of loss.

When it's all said and done, it's all worth it. Everyone who comes into your life, everyone you love, leaves something behind in some way. Even with the pain, the knowledge, the change, the having loved and been loved is all worth it.

That's what the point is.

(Random comment based on your sig "Heels are a male invention designed to make women's butts look smaller." Elite men originally wore the heels.)


Picture of Meagan87
Registered: May 07, 2003
Posts: 7586
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"Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

^^I don't know if it applies to romantic love, but the rest of it sure it true.


"Never doubt that a small group of committed people can change the world. Indeed it is the only thing that ever has." --Margaret Mead
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