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Picture of AMF8
Registered: June 20, 2005
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hmmm he mentioned boobs a lot

Im sure sex never crossed his mind.....
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Galevav---> I just checked out your profile after reading this.

*Swoons*

If I weren't taken, baby, I'd want you!

Mmkay...I got a little carried away there. Anyway, you seen really nice and you look for good things in girls. I'm glad you don't want skinny chicks. You could hug on me. Wink And I think the affectionate thing is cute. I love hugs and hand-holding.

While, you're like the dream guy.

Except I'm taken. And you said you had a special-lady-friend. Oh well...I love my guy and he's pretty much the same as you (except 18 and from NC instead of 18 and from Georgia).

I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate knowing there are guys like you outside of NC, as recently I have been doubting that. Big Grin


Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
Sho
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Registered: July 11, 2005
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Okay, guys, look at the responses to this question.

Just like there are girls who think sex is a foremost priority and girls who think personality is the most important and girls who think it's all about being a size 0, guys have different priorities based on their personalities.

The only thing I can think of that everybody likes is confidence. I don't mean reaching down into the pants of every guy you meet the second you meet him, but just general self-esteem and the ability to make eye contact, carry on a fun conversation, etc. Confidence is sexy.

And, I like short hair on girls, but that's just me...
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Registered: July 13, 2005
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Height: Doesn't matter.
Weight: No skinny chicks. Seriously, I want a healthy, huggable lady. ^_^
Brains: If you're smart as a rock, you're probably as boring as one.
Brawns: I like a girl that can kick my @$$. ^_^ But muscly girls scare me. Inner strength is more important to me.
And boobies. Niiiiice boobies.
*WHACK*
You'll have to excuse him, he's a little blunt, but he's harmless. I've learned to look at issues at all sides, and have thus developed a sort of split-personality thing.
I think what this dropout from the human race wants to say, is that curves are an important physical aspect--

Boooooooooobs....
*Laser noise!*
>_< Anyway. I like an affectionate girl. My own reasons. Nothing perverted, just hugging and hand-holding. I want a girl who is looking for love, and not just "a good time", because frankly, I don't have that kind of money, because, frankly, I spend it all on anime. Similar intrests are important, because you need to have something to talk about, ja? Fortunately, I have a new special-lady-friend who fits the bill nicely. ^_^
And her swimsuit. ^_~
...Can't argue there. *Swoons*
"*Swoons*"? Dude... you hang around chicks too much.
I'd say that I don't hang around them enough. :P


[If I have all faith so as to move mountains but do not have love, I am nothing.]
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they have to be smart AND SHORTER THAN ME
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ours is a madness steeped by lore, the hardest kind for the hardest core


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Good looking, not a gold-digger and really loves you no matter what.


"Older men declare war. But it is the youth that must fight and die." - Herbert Hoover
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Registered: October 28, 2004
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with girls, i look for personality mostly. i dont go after boring chicks. in body i mostly like curvy darker-skinned chicks that are short.


YOU ARE NOT PREPARED!
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Originally posted by AMF8:
and when grls and guys say slu* they use it in a slightly different context. dont believe me, listen carefully to some conversations and you will pickup on it. when a guy is telling of a grl she just banged hell give his pal a high-five and be like "yeah nailed that slu*" thats deragatory, amking her seem like an object. or "who cares about you, ur just a trashy ****" once again deragetory turning the grl into an item.

when grls use it its like "oh my good look at her skirt, what a little ****" or "can u believe she slept with brad (awfully good looking kid) what a ****" with grls the word **** is used when they are competeng. with guys it is used to dehumanize the grl


I DON'T COMPETE WITH GIRLS!!! Stop your generalizing.

I call a girl a s*ut when she is one. The end. I don't need to compete with other girls. It's unnecessary.


Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
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Registered: September 29, 2004
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Celtic, this is a lost cause. Poor AMF is so flustered (and a little slow), he's completely typing in circles. We all know he's wrong, but you can't teach a mule how to play chess. It just won't happen.

Sweetheart, don't waste your time.


A lo hecho, pecho.
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Registered: June 20, 2005
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ONCE AGAIN, READ MY ******* WORDS

i never said the way guys use slu* (dehumanize was better than the way grls use it competition (competition)
never
never
never
READ.....

dont bash me for not writing well, i dont care about my grammar here. you are the idiot who makes things up. i never said that. i did not say it is better to dehumanize a grl than call "the way you(I) claim girls call girls harlots for"

i did not say that
read my words

i hope you get the point.

and how do you know that a harlot isnt "bright of the mind" (good one yoda), plenty of smart people like to screw , and even so plenty of stupid people know to use condoms

oh yeah and BTW READ
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celticretard you need to stop associating sex with STD's "like oh dont have too much sex, you will get herpes". yeah you may, but then again if you drive 5mph over the speed limit, you have a better chance of crashing. but you do it anyway, and you have never crashed


I don't, but a harlot isn't very bright of the mind and therefore wouldn't know of protection. And if a girl is enough of a retard to screw countless guys, she's enough of a retard to fall for the excuse "but it doesn't feel as good with a condom!".

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and when grls and guys say slu* they use it in a slightly different context. dont believe me, listen carefully to some conversations and you will pickup on it. when a guy is telling of a grl she just banged hell give his pal a high-five and be like "yeah nailed that slu*" thats deragatory, amking her seem like an object. or "who cares about you, ur just a trashy ****" once again deragetory turning the grl into an item.


Exactly.

I love how you think dehumanizing a girl is much better than calling the way you claim girls call girls harlots for.

Also, learn to write before calling me a retard.

And if you unite a few adjetives together, such as witty fast talker, you have a description.


"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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In all honesty, if a guy required me to perform oral sex on him so he could like me, I'd do it. And I'd bite. Hard. posted by celtic

*smiles* Darlin' I am completely with you.


Search the land, you'll find another with the same face. Search the Earth, you'll find not one more with the same soul.
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christ! when i called him a poet i was being sarcastic. what the hell is a witty fast talker
dont diss rap. it isnt my favorite type of music either, i just picked that quote because it was appropriate. rap is a powerful type of music. it has the youth of america in its clutches, and it is too bad it delivers the wrong message

celticretard you need to stop associating sex with STD's "like oh dont have too much sex, you will get herpes". yeah you may, but then again if you drive 5mph over the speed limit, you have a better chance of crashing. but you do it anyway, and you have never crashed

and when grls and guys say slu* they use it in a slightly different context. dont believe me, listen carefully to some conversations and you will pickup on it. when a guy is telling of a grl she just banged hell give his pal a high-five and be like "yeah nailed that slu*" thats deragatory, amking her seem like an object. or "who cares about you, ur just a trashy ****" once again deragetory turning the grl into an item.

when grls use it its like "oh my good look at her skirt, what a little ****" or "can u believe she slept with brad (awfully good looking kid) what a ****" with grls the word **** is used when they are competeng. with guys it is used to dehumanize the grl
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Registered: September 29, 2004
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Originally posted by AMF8:
justsome grl quit your b*itching

i will put a rest to this argument now since i can see we are sortof coming to a rough truce. But i still maintain, girls.....if you want that guy to notice you, you know what to do. Your sexuality is a weapon. ue it, wield it, abuse it, enjoy it.


And get called a "tease" and earn yourself a bad reputation by guys lying and spreading rumors because you didn't put out, but you pretended you would.

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guys who read this and are like "wtf? i look for sex", dont worry, your in good company


Guys who read this and are like, "Wtf I look for sex," worry. Take a look at your company and hang your head in shame.

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grls who read this and now feel like slu*s, you are not slu*s, you are normal. Slu* is only a word that grls use to describe other grls when they are jealous. guys almost never say that word.


Bull****. Guys use it all the time.

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I dont care how much you all bombard me about what i think i maintain. Big deal, so I am a bit shallow. I dont care, i will decide to grow up later.


The thing is..someone's going to marry this kid. Being shallow is no excuse. I'm extremely shallow, but I still respect women. Perhaps it's because I know more about sex and women than you, and perhaps you'll learn that any woman worth knowing will never give you the time of day with an attitude like that.

quote:
Me give my heart to a woman
Not for nothin' never happen'
I'll be forever mackin'
Heart cold as assassins, I got no passion
I got no patience and I hate waitin'
Hoe get your *** in

And let's RI-I-I-I-I-IDE

- Jay-Z

Pimp, Poet, Rapper


Pimp? No. He doesn't sell women. BUZZ, wrong. Next. Poet? Nope. Not in any way, shape, or form. Rapper? Ah, yes.


A lo hecho, pecho.
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i will put a rest to this argument now since i can see we are sortof coming to a rough truce. But i still maintain, girls.....if you want that guy to notice you, you know what to do. Your sexuality is a weapon. ue it, wield it, abuse it, enjoy it.


Great. I hope no idiot 13 year old or younger has read that. Now they'll cry and think they have to screw guys to get attention. So then the teenage pregnancy rate and teen STD rate increases because at that age you know nothing.

In all honesty, if a guy required me to perform oral sex on him so he could like me, I'd do it. And I'd bite. Hard.

We're not your toys. Go get a fake vagina (they actually exist) in the choice of your favourite porn star if you want a sex toy.

There are harlots (as in, the promiscous girls). I don't call girls harlots because they have sex, because I do it as well. I do call them so when they screw around more than they blink.

And how can you honestly call a rapper a poet? Especially Jay-Z, Tupac had a few decent quotes. Jay-Z said nothing. Quotes and talking fast about crap doesn't make you a poet, it makes you a witty fast talker. Whomever believes most rap is poetry should be beaten with a book of poetry.


"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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guys almost never say that word.


okay? I hear it a lot. I'm a guy. I wouldn't say it to someones face but if she is a sl*t...whatever


"When you pull on that jersey, the name on the front is a hell of alot more important than the one on the back." Herb Brooks
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Well, I wasn't B*itchin. I agree sexuality is a weapon, but me persoanlly, I don't use it. I don't care enough about relationships to use it. Every now and then I do to have a little fun. But that's about it. And thats because I don't consider myself a very sexual person. I don't wear makeup, if I'm lucky I remember to brush my hair, I don't have nice clothes, usually jeans a t-shirt and I'm fine with that. there are more important things to me.


happiness is like pissing your pants; everyone can see it, but only you feel the warmth
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Registered: June 14, 2004
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Originally posted by AMF8:
grls who read this and now feel like slu*s, you are not slu*s, you are normal. Slu* is only a word that grls use to describe other grls when they are jealous. guys almost never say that word.


I don't describe girls as s*uts when I'm jealous of them...I describe them as such when they sleep with they often sleep with guys they barely know and when they have sex just to have sex, not as part of a relationship. In other words, I call girls s*uts when it's true.


Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
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justsome grl quit your b*itching

i will put a rest to this argument now since i can see we are sortof coming to a rough truce. But i still maintain, girls.....if you want that guy to notice you, you know what to do. Your sexuality is a weapon. ue it, wield it, abuse it, enjoy it.


guys who read this and are like "wtf? i look for sex", dont worry, your in good company

grls who read this and now feel like slu*s, you are not slu*s, you are normal. Slu* is only a word that grls use to describe other grls when they are jealous. guys almost never say that word.

I dont care how much you all bombard me about what i think i maintain. Big deal, so I am a bit shallow. I dont care, i will decide to grow up later. untill then i will leave you with some sweet words...



Me give my heart to a woman
Not for nothin' never happen'
I'll be forever mackin'
Heart cold as assassins, I got no passion
I got no patience and I hate waitin'
Hoe get your *** in

And let's RI-I-I-I-I-IDE

- Jay-Z

Pimp, Poet, Rapper
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Registered: July 24, 2003
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I don't know or care what guys look for in a girl. If I don't fulfill some guys requirements than obviously any type of relationship is not right for us because I will not change for some guy and I would never ask a guy to change for me. I've had a few different relationships all very satisfying and in some there was sexual activity, in others there wasn't. They all ended on good terms, and in each, both parties enjoyed the others company regardless of what we were doing at the time. I am currently happily single, not looking far anyone, but should someone come along then good for me.


happiness is like pissing your pants; everyone can see it, but only you feel the warmth
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