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Originally posted by WorthWaitingFor:
AMF: Most of the guys I know wouldn't have sex with a girl just to have sex. They would rather actually know the girl...then they're all for the sex.

Maybe I just know good guys?

Lol, yep. Only a few (two or three) of my guy friends have never 1. had a one-night stand, or 2. turned down a girl's offer for sex, or 3. had sex without ever having the intention of a relationship. They're not bad people, just ...typical dudes.

But of course, it's not fair to say there aren't women who act the same way. 'Cause there absolutely are.

AMF: Most of the guys I know wouldn't have sex with a girl just to have sex. They would rather actually know the girl...then they're all for the sex.

Maybe I just know good guys?

And before anyone says it: No, I am not naive. I know these guys inside out and I know that this is the way they feel.

guys also look for a grl who will screw around with them. No guy will turn you down, no matter what you look like. You would have to be very very very unsightly to get a "no" in the sexual activity department, either that, or the guy is a retard. Males are constructed to do that kind of stuff, its built into our brains. If there is a guy who says he doesnt care about it, either he is lying, or he really doesnt care, in which case you should lose him because that is totally unnatural

dont be a prude, because that is the biggest turnoff ever

ARGH!!!

Okay, guys, I love you both, but please read the rest of my post. I'm not confused by most men (as Eutrepe said, they are usually pretty simple) but only by the two that I have had the pleasure of dating.

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I'm regularly confused by men.

And I'm completely baffled by women. Take my ex-girlfriend, for instance. We dated for a long time, but then things started to get a little rocky. I think we both knew it was all but over. So one day, she comes up to me and tells me that we should both go our separate ways. So we break up. No hard feelings, right? Wrong. Shortly after that, she gets...weird. Nothing else has happened in her life to warrant such an attitude change, aside from the break-up. So it seems to me that even though she initiated the break-up, she was the one that took it hard. I just don't get it.

So now I'm single and happily non-confused.

Oh, and as for what I look for in girls, I prefer them average weight, average height, and they must not be airheads. Preferably far from it.

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Originally posted by WorthWaitingFor:
I'm regularly confused by men.

And they always think it's us. Men are so simple, though, that they just seem complex. Like, there HAS to be more than this. But nope. They're just big kids. Their tastes differ, but rarely will you get caught in any reverse psychology.

Lol, don't get me wrong. I feel for the guys. Women are no freakin' picnic to deal with.

I'm regularly confused by men.

I am no knockout. This I know. It's not me being some self-deprecating teenage girl. I just know that I am overweight and not exceptionally gorgeous.

The only two boyfriends I have ever had have both been thin, good looking (one more so than the other, though, and in a more obvious way), and nice guys. My current one could've had this girl who is my friend that is very very pretty and has like the perfect body. But he chose me. Both of these guys could've had someone who had more in the looks department than I did but they chose me.

That's what has brought me to the conclusion that personality/brains is looked for more than looks...at least when it comes to the worthwhile guys.

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Originally posted by WorthWaitingFor:
Most of them look for you to be yourself.

Ah, my boyfriend boiled it down to this for me: "Three B's. Beauty, Brains, and Boobs. In that order." Not perfect, this man. I just found it funny ...and shallow, but still funny. I got back, I said "Strength, Sagacity and Size." ..That shuts them right the **** up.

Most of them look for you to be yourself.