I have just one question for you all, what really is so bad about being gay? I an gay, and I am fine with it. I know it is against the bible, and I am ok with it. I have already gotten crap about it, but seriously. Who cares if I am in love with a guy. At least it is love. and the bible tells us to love your neighbor. So, what is bad about it? If I and my partner are happy, I think the lord will be ok with our happiness. Why can't society?

I agree both with schultzmben and wolfie...I mean when i told my friends( we have known each other from elementary and middle school) they just said okay and nothing changed about our friendship. It all depends on the type of people we are dealing with and their maturity level in certain situations. Its just a way of life. Maybe your friend wasnt the Good friend you thought he was. Maybe he wasnt ready for that type of situation but its better now than later

there is nothing wrong with homosexuality. i struggled through my teen years and early grown up years as a united methodist minister, and finally came out. Our sexuality is who we are, what we do with certain parts of our bodies is not just about being gay or straight. it is how we live our lives that counts.

In my opinion theres nothing bad in being homosexual love can happen with anyone so what if some one is Gay or Lesbian no 1 can hurt ones feeling iam from Pakistan in our country it is taken as a very very very big issue however it is against Holy Bible but Love is Life............

I dont think there's anything wrong about it... I am gay and I have a girlfriend who I love and she loves me...Its about how you feel about the situation...If you dont like it and have something to say about it then dont get into other people's business if they are homosexual, bisexual, transexual or lesbian.

Your totally right. I just don't know, because when I told my best friend, he wigged out. He is one of those obssesive christians, and when I told him he well ended our really good freinship. Oh well, his loss I guess, right? But our whole small community is kinds like that too. I don't know. Any ideas out there? I don't care about peoples opinions to begin with, but I can't stand being patronized. And heaven knows I will be. So, any thoughts?

Well there's the whole it isn't "natural" bit, but if you merely look around at your environment you'll realize none of these things are natural so I think that arguement is a bit frivilous. There's the fact that you cannot reproduce, which means if you want children you have to adopt (how is this a problem for some people?). Also you'll probably burn in hell according to most obsessively religious people, but they're cuckoo so I wouldn't even bother listening to them. Think of the gay rights movement as the civil rights movement... it's not going to be broadly accepted overnight but our generation is much more at ease with people who are "different" than the supposed norm so when you're older you'll probably be treated with the civility you deserve.