i am absolutely in love with my ex-girlfriend. she knows it too.but she just seems to ignore it. i want to ask her out again cause it feels like i can't go on living without her. i cried for hours just because she wasn't mine. i need her back. she's my one and my only, and i've never said that about anyone....does anyone have any suggestions for winning her back? i know thats an odd question, but i need her so bad. if anyone has any suggestions, PLEASE tell me.

We all feel sorry for you. I really had hoped that she would say that she still liked you. I am extremely sorry. And do try to move on. It might help. Look for other hot girls and such.

thanks

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Originally posted by DieFromtheInside:
well, i've done it. i've talked to her and....i'm afraid that i'm never going to get her back. thank you everybody who gave me advice, i really appreciate it. and, now, i'm going to take the advice of the people who told me to move on. once again, thank you all.

anytime...at frist moving on might seem hard but i promise all the feelings will go away and you will meet another amazing person

well, i've done it. i've talked to her and....i'm afraid that i'm never going to get her back. thank you everybody who gave me advice, i really appreciate it. and, now, i'm going to take the advice of the people who told me to move on. once again, thank you all.

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Originally posted by bushhater:
Wait for her to come to you groveling. And man, you are kinda sad, I have never cried about a guy.

and what happens if she doesnt...thats happended to me lol.

alright. wish me lots of luck.

Yeah, e-mail her.

honestly, i should. its really hard to talk to her though. we don't talk much because its very akward. sometimes she'll smile at me and sometimes she'll pretend i'm not there. but really, i think i'm going to send her an e-mail. or call her or something. because, if its never gonna happen, its better to know sooner. and, theres some things we need to talk about.

If she wants you back, and also have you asked her why you broke up?

....i don't really know why we broke up. we definetly were fine for a bit. and then one day it all fell apart. have i asked her what?

Why did you guys break up in the first place? And have you asked her?

like i said, thats the last of all my options. if i can get her back, then i'm going to try until i'm absolutly certain its not gonna happen. but if thats to only option, what else can i do but go for that.

I am sorry. I don't know what to tell you, but try to move on, you will porbable never get over your first love, it is pretty hard granted, I still haven't gotten over mine, but, other than that, what else is there to do?

thats just it, i can't tell whether she still likes me or not. she says things that make me believe she does and then does things that make me wonder. so i don't know. but if she still does, even the littlest bit, i'll fight for it.

if she wanted you back wouldnt you she tell you? Honestly i can relate, i have have 2 bad breakups, one in which i was in the same mind set as you. Thinking how can i get her back. if she really doenst have feelings for you anymore the honest hard truth is your just going to have to get over her. As crazy as that sounds it will happen eventually and life will go on. Make sure you find a good freind to talk to that will help alot also...time heals everything
p.s. if she still does like you sorry for the useless advice...

I smell emo...

we were best friends long before i started to date her. it kinda fell into a "i'm a girl and i think i love a girl. but she's my best friend..." both of us felt that way, and that was awesome.

i'm not sure if she wants me back or not. i mean, if she did, that would be awesome...but if she didn't....i guess i'd have to go for it...though i really love her.

we were best friends long before i started to date her. it kinda fell into a "i'm a girl and i think i love a girl. but she's my best friend..." both of us felt that way, and that was awesome.

Basically, what Daveman said. How long did the two of you date? My guess is that you put a ton of emotional stock into this relatively short-term relationship, and the whole thing has come to mean more to you than seems reasonable to anyone else, your ex included. There's a good chance that has a lot to do with why the relationship fell apart in the first place.

I really can relate to how you're feeling; I went through a period where I felt if I couldn't get one particular girl, I literally had no reason to live that was worth anything. With time, I just sort of realized life would go on without her. Oddly enough, when you're truly over her and your actions show it, then she might start showing you interest again. It's a horrible Catch 22.

Right now, though, you're probably doing everything possible to repel her, even if you're not aware of it. Your attitude of "She wants me back, I just don't know how to get her back" could not be further off the mark. If she wanted you back, she would indicate so.

I'm sorry if I come off mean, but really, the best thing you can do right now is try to move on. Also, act casually around your ex, even if it doesn't come naturally at first. For the love of god, don't bombard her with presents or phone calls or anything like that.