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Picture of GoodbyeKitty
Registered: October 29, 2004
Posts: 15
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Apparently, I've just fallen in love with my best friend. But i don't want to pull a Britney (no offense, brit fans) on this. Frown


Kitten
Picture of sk8er_gurl
Registered: November 04, 2004
Posts: 6
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Gurl, its ok,,im sure alot f other people are friends with eachother, and then they fall in love, take me for an example, I have been friends with this one guy for like 5 years, and now, we have both developed a liking to eachother, and just yesterday he asked me out!!!! so dont feel bad, ask him out, if he says no, dont take it personal, just suck it up and if he says yes, when u 2 break up, u will still need eachother. in the end, no matter what,u will still be friends!!!
Picture of realisticdude14
Registered: November 04, 2004
Posts: 12
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hey listen like what ppl said you need to find out if you do love him and if you do then you should talk to him about it not just tell him and leave him confused and shocked cuz you caught him off guard us guys normaly hate being suprised like that and if he is a tru friend he will understand and it wont bother him and who knows he may feel the same way
*keeping fingers crossed for you*
Picture of VeRtiCaLxLiMiT
Registered: September 22, 2004
Posts: 889
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Haha, pull a Britney. If it's right it'll happen, if it isn't it won't happen. Just go with the flow, no worries. Smile


"Take risks and never regret them."
Picture of intern_lady
Registered: October 21, 2004
Posts: 11
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quote:
Everybody has a crush on their best guy friends. It's inevitably going to happen. Just do some soul searching : Do you really love this guy, or is it just a crush?



not everyone. i have a male best friend, he's just a friend. he's amazing and i love him lots, but i'm not 'in love' with him. if you know where your heart is, you can control what it does...


Job 26:7b- ...He hangs the earth on nothing...
Picture of writerinprogress
Registered: July 23, 2004
Posts: 138
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Everybody has a crush on their best guy friends. It's inevitably going to happen. Just do some soul searching : Do you really love this guy, or is it just a crush?

If you do the soul searching and find out that you do really have a thing for the guy then decide whether or not you want to tell him. Telling him might ruin the relationship, but not telling him might drive you crazy.

It's your choice, choose wisely.
Picture of PunkerishChk12
Registered: October 06, 2004
Posts: 76
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Eh?


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Picture of calcoastsurfer
Registered: September 06, 2003
Posts: 805
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Eh it happens all the time. Make sure he feels the same before you do something too forward because otherwise it might get awkward.


"Fu*k me gently with a chainsaw" -Heather
Picture of KSte
Registered: March 11, 2003
Posts: 10
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Your 'love' should be your best friend in a way. Just to repeat what was said before, make sure its not messy if it has to end at some time. Does this guy know about it? Has he shown similar intrest?
The people i've gone out with have both been good friends of mine before we started a dif type of relationship, you just mainly have to concentrate on your friendship coming first.


--KSte
Picture of yogore
Registered: February 02, 2004
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I was going to say something similar to that sleeprocker.

just go for it but make sure you guys don't have a messy breakup when (if) it happens.


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Picture of sleeprocker
Registered: July 30, 2004
Posts: 203
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So you're scared you'd go out, get plastered, then marry your best friend for 55 hours?


Just remember I'm human, too.
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