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Why do guys like it so much that a girl has big boobs and a big bootie? It's like that is all the guy wants the girl for is her body or somthing.

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I am 15 I have a ghetto bootie and a big chest and its like that is all the guys want me for.
But I can say one thing there are guys out there that will go out for you not because you have a big bootie or a big chest buy for who you are.
And if you are out there and you are complaing that you don't have anything than be glad. be happy for who you are and that God love's you. he created you for whom he wants you to be.

 

I think to have a crush on someone you have to be physically attracted to them, but that doesn't mean they have to be perfect looking. You can like the way someone looks without them being the stereotypical image of perfection. Whether the guy I like is what everyone else would class as good-looking isn't important, what matters is that I'm attracted to him. To sum up, looks are much less important than you'd think from the way people go on about them, and who can say what attracts different people? Beauty is a matter of opinion a lot of the time.

When you meet someone new what do you judge them by first? Their inteligence? Their personality type? Unless you are phsycic you probably judge first off by what someone looks like. The same is true for guys when meeting women. Even if you truely love someone i doubt you could ever be found saying "Yea i know *insert name here* is ugly but i love them for who they are".

Infact looking back on my relationships even if my love interest isnt that good looking i usually will take offense if someone says it.

I realised i started rambling so i will sum up my oppinion:
You are talking about two different things, physical attraction does not always equal love and viseversa.

well i kno a guy who has sort of a diff opinion. i wear baggy hoodies every single day, no one can notice if i have big boobs or not, same with my pants, i have very baggy pants so ppl cant tel if i have a big asss or not! but a guy feel in love with me and he told me that he loves me so much, cuz im so out going and everything, he just told me, the looks come extra, i kno he cares some about looks, but im not a very very very pretty girl, he loves me for my soul, as he will love everyone else he goes out with int he future that way to (hopefully) so all guys are not 100% up for girls cuz of boobs and butt

I don't think that you should label that on all guys. Quite a few believe in the principle of a girl having a brain. I should know. I am currently looking for one myself. Big boobs and a big butt are nice, but they don't make for very good conversation, ya know?
Mark

Iam pretty sure its instinct, big breasts have some link with lactation, big back/child bearing hips, meaning they are more suitable for motherhood, much in the same way as girls are attracted to physically fit men. Survival of the fittest.

It's called hormones. the tricky part is not letting them control you. Is there a guy on this board who can honestly say he does not like women with big breasts? If you expect to explain it, I can't. It's just something guys are attracted to. what's important is that it's not the deciding factor in who a guy dates. I don't think I could go out with a girl who's personality was majorly offensive nomatter how sexy she was.

Its nautural for men to be attracted to those things...however the attraction has been turned into a Frenzied LUST! by media...I think its hard for most guys to see past physically beuty to spiritual & mental beaty becuase the reason's for anyone to want to do so (like marriage& meaningfull relationships) have been made seemingly useless by the american mentally of-sex for everyone anyone, however you want it, whenever you want it, and who ever you want to do it with...all accountablitity and morality is gone!