please ansswer the poll and feel free to reply also

Question:
what are you?

Choices:
virgin
non-virgin

 

Yay!

*high fives*

quote:

I am very much a virgin; I'm like the biggest virgin in the history of virginity - it's me and... I don't know, the Virgin Mary. But I have no interest in being anything else right now, saving sex for marriage.

We are in the same club! High Five! :P

I am very much a virgin; I'm like the biggest virgin in the history of virginity - it's me and... I don't know, the Virgin Mary. But I have no interest in being anything else right now, saving sex for marriage.

Concerning peer pressure, my friends all have very different ideas about what dating and relationships are about, and sometimes it is hard to remember not to let them rub off on you or influence you to be someone you're not (usually, themselves). It's so weird when my friends come to me for romantic advice, since I'm like the one with the least experience in that field (besides watching fake romances on TV lol). But later on, they do usually regret not listening to me so..ha. Life IS like the movies Anyway, if I do start having a love life I'll have learned what not to do from all of my friends rookie mistakes, so yay me.

And WB Trisscar, if you are indeed back

I've never found it hard to just say "no."

...that sounded so cheesy. Anyways, I felt a bit of pressure from friends at times, but I was lucky enough to have friends who never did crazy things (or at least didn't ask me to do crazy things with them). The worst things my friends did were tell bad sex jokes and kick anthills at recess in elementary school (which, interestingly enough, did get us in trouble at least once).

quote:

Peer Pressure is a huge problem in schools these days?

They overexaggerate it.

Peer Pressure is a huge problem in schools these days? Whatever... I didn't graduate that long ago and I never had Peer Pressure to do anything. And I never pressured anyone into it either.

IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DO SOMETHING DON'T DO IT!!! And yeah I guess getting new and better freinds would work but no one does that.

quote:

hey
I am getting preserd by my peers to take a hit,have sex
can you help me

Get better friends (if they're part of the problem) and ignore your peers.

hey
I am getting preserd by my peers to take a hit,have sex
can you help me

drama drama... thats how it is on the topic of sex

She lied.

quote:

i'm a virgin,but i ahve nothing against those who aren't -if it's what they wanna be doin, and are willin to take the chances while knowing of the risks-so be it. thats their choice...i have my opinions and they have theirs, i'm not gonna take any chances of getting pregnant or anything....besides-it's against my religion...but anywayz.....

Didn't you tell us you were married and had a kid?

i'm a virgin,but i ahve nothing against those who aren't -if it's what they wanna be doin, and are willin to take the chances while knowing of the risks-so be it. thats their choice...i have my opinions and they have theirs, i'm not gonna take any chances of getting pregnant or anything....besides-it's against my religion...but anywayz.....

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Originally posted by Ikki14Reed:
I remember being in 7th grade and hearing "So-and-so [an eighth grader] got pregnant by So-and-so [the 20 year old security guard]."

Half the guys in my middle school claimed they'd lost their virginity. I can only hope they were full of crap.

Oh, and the poll? Let me answer it in a year or so.

I lost my virginity when I was in 5th grade... to a 15 year old. I was that girl that everyone looked at and said eww... Since then i have develped a sence of what sex is and what "making love" is... sex has never been a shock to me so I dont think that its a big deal.

Now that i have a boyfriend that hasnt ever had sex i can really tell how big of a deal it is. And now the though of having sex with him is scary and im not ready any more then he is.

I now understand that i wasnt ready for sex at such a young age and giving it away to someone that didnt mean anything to me was one of my biggest mistakes.

I remember being in 7th grade and hearing "So-and-so [an eighth grader] got pregnant by So-and-so [the 20 year old security guard]."

Clpo, you reminded me of that for some reason.

I suppose it would be odd to be 14 and know people your age that aren't virgins. The first time I ever came across that was in late high school (when the number of girls--or guys--you've laid becomes something to brag about). That's not to say it didn't happen earlier, but just that I was too naive to realize what they were talking about...

Apparently there are several girls in my grade who aren't and haven't been for a while. I was rather scared by that. And apparently two of my friends are thinking about having sex.

Rigth now in this century, sex can be evil and good at the same time. But dang! y it gots to get you in a lot of trouble man. I'm still a virgin, but hopefully I stay a virgin til I'm odl enough to do it. I don't know if I might change by the time I get to high school and turn like those kind of girls.