I'm not a virgin (for all those who DON'T know that)

In reality sex is awesome, I'm not going to lie, however, you have to be emotionally (and physically) ready for it. It does change relationships, in some cases in mature relationships it can strengthen it, in immature relationships it can mess things up. Its up to the couple to decide whether they're ready, nobody else can make that decision but them. But please, use you're brain... yeah I mean the one in your head, not the one below, use protection, calculate the risks, if you're not completely comfrotable talking to your partner about it, well I'm sorry you're probably not ready.

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Originally posted by speed:
Sex is a non issue. Stop treating it like a taboo and experience it.

Yeah and watch how it complicates relationships and ends up being awkward later. The people I know who are flippant about having sex are flippant about everything else too. And if you do hold sex to a higher standard, then sleeping around WILL have consequences. It doesn't have to be a taboo but that doesn't mean it's something that you just do either.

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still a virgin

still don't really have an issue with it

Yeah, same here.

I've got 4 cousins under the age of 5 right now, and I'm a nanny. Birth control? 10 hours of baby-sitting a colicky 5 month old will do the trick.

Sex may be wonderful eventually...but at this point of my life, I think not.

Sex is a non issue. Stop treating it like a taboo and experience it.

still a virgin

still don't really have an issue with it

I was a virgin till the last year of HS.

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I accidentally marked virgin on the poll, but it really should be non-virgin. Just so everyone knows I already screwed up the poll...

Nice going, Clpo. :P

I was a virgin all throughout high school, so I guess that's another thing to add to my list of stereotypes I don't fit...

I accidentally marked virgin on the poll, but it really should be non-virgin. Just so everyone knows I already screwed up the poll...

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Originally posted by Meagan87:

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maybe most of the people who are on here

When you're on YN 24/7, there's no time for sex.

xD

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maybe most of the people who are on here

When you're on YN 24/7, there's no time for sex.

Virginity is a difficult subject... Its been a while since i could call myself a virgin. i consider sexual acts that could give you an STD giving up your virginity. But most dont. and no remitrouble... your not the only non-virgin. and i can tell you that most those people lied. 57% of highschoolers in the united states in 2006 were not virgins.

in my highschool 77% of highschoolers were non-virgins. then again there were the liers... but no one cares to talk about them... when you think about 77% of a highschool of 300... thats alot of kids who have had sex. there were 12 girls in my graduating class that were pregnant at the time of graduation... and 7 other girls that had kids already. my graduating class had 96 people in it. there were 14 fathers in my graduating class.

being a virgin in highschool??? i dont think so. maybe most of the people who are on here... maybe. but not in most highschools.

Oh wow. I guess I'm the only "non-virgin"

Anyway... what is virginity? I knew a girl who considered virginity anything sexual; oral sex, etc. Another girl considers virginity vaginal intercourse.

That also brings up the question... What about lesbians? If lesbians have never had intercourse with a male, but has done things with females, is she a virgin?

why do you have to be so up close and personal? but wateva I gave u my answer.