I'm a member of the football team and many of the guys on the team do chick rating. For those who dont know what this is, I'll explain: They place points on different girls and u get more points the farther you go with her. I think this is really wrong because after they use the girl they just dump her and ive seen many inocent girls crying in the hall over this stupid "game" of theirs. I'm curious about what other guys think about this. write me back

My sister and I were both very bored once at our marina and decided to rate the guys we saw. Mind you, our marina is mostly older couples...one guy got a rating of 10 merely due to the fact that he wasn't in his 60's.

I rate girls all the time. Who cares. If you're ugly, you're ugly.

And you're saying that girls don't have some kind of rating system for guys?

...What inconsiderate pricks. doing that to girls. it is despicable.

Listen guys, it's not really that huge of a deal, you just gotta be smart about stuff like that.

Besides, I can think of worse things to do to a person...heh, things I've done...

if I knew someone who did 'chick rating' I would greatly enjoy re-aranging thier face. And coming from me, thats a big deal- considering that I have never punched anyone in my life.

the whole thing is pathetic

Its a pretty cold thing, of course those who do it useually have one more brain cell than it takes to grunt, and apparently girls do the same in some cases, outspoken has a fair point though.

Man, they really are out of it. Who knows how many freakin std's they could be passing on?

Any girl, or really, any person, who doesn't see what she's getting herself into, deserves whatever happens.

Oh....Um..... I don't think it's the girl's fault. I just think the girl thinks that the guy changed his ways and now really does like her. Or the girl doesn't know about this game they are playing.
I do think it's the guys fault though. They know they are going to hurt the girl but they do it anyways. They probably think it's "no big deal" if they dump the girl but it is a big deal to the girl.
Many of you said in other posts that is isn't right to judge people, isn't this judging the guys though, saying that the girl should know already what the guy is all about because the guy is a jock or something.
Sergewb1 is a football player, right? So he probably is judged as a jock at school but he said it himself, he doesn't go chick rating.
That's what I'm saying that some girls think that the guy they are dating is differnt from the others and he probably is.
Bye n Have a nice and wonderful day
Cindy

First of all, Sergewb1, it's good to know that you don't participate. Because there are nice guys out there (I have been lucky enough to find some).

This is mostly the guys' faults, but come on-if a guy had used someone before and wanted to go out with me, I would say no. Do the girls know that this is all a game? If they didn't then that's understandable, but if they did then they're not helping the problem.

It is the girl's fault only to the point that she let herself be taken advantage of by a guy who she knew to be a jerk and involved with this game. She let herself get hurt, although this does not mean that the guy is not to blame.

Like it's been said on here, it's not just the guy's fault. I mean, if you let yourself lose control like that, then you should be prepared to suffer the consequences. Furthermore, the portrayal of girls, crying in the hallways, come on, let's be just a *bit* more stereotypical.

I agree that it isn't smart to be taken in by guys like that, but that doesn't change that it's a really low thing for the guy to do. Some of you may think 'fair play if he can get her' but just imagine the humiliation which comes from being used that way.

For the record, I notice the nice guys, not just the 'hot' ones.

Bex

I find those lists funny because at my school the list that went around for both sexes couldnt have been farther from the truth. ALmost everyone of the so called hot people went on to be uneducated loosers that ended up pathetic because after high school ended they didnt have the social status they once held so close to their hearts and were disapointed when the real world smaked them right in the face and showed them that looks fade and the real world does not care if you were popular. Meanwhile all of the nice people have went on and made something of ourselves. Man I cant wait for my high school reunion. I bet all of those so called hot people will be singing a different tune.

the girl would then be nieve and "easy" for falling for the oldest trick in the book.

seriously, if you don't think that alot of guys are like that, your fooling yourself. IT'S all those NICE guys out there that go unnoticed; who would rather be walked on, than step on someone else. yah there nice and all but hey, lets face it.

girls are at EQUAL fault; more if only they weren't so, and i say this sympathetically as possible; stuck in fantasy land. there's nice guys; and there's bad ones. wait longer than a day before you find out which he is, no?

Avenger, how would it be the girl's fault?

It would be the girl's fault because she thought some guy really liked/loved her?

It would be the girl's fault if she really loved the guy (big mistake right there, but)?

It would be the girl's fault because she just wanted to make sure the guy kept liking her?

How exactly would it be the girl's fault, that's all I want to know.

*Star*

isnt it just as much the girls fault as it is the guys? i don't know, maybe im the only one who see's that.