
Registered: January 05, 2004
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Before I came out everyone was so proud of me kissing and hugging me. Now my mom acts like I have a disease, her husband thinks that he knows me. I don't do drugs, I'm good in school, and I'm not loud or dirty. Sometimes I cry because I didn't do anything, but it seems like they're set out to hurt me. She doesn't say I love and I think I make her cry because before she didn't do it every night. I want to go away and take the pain that I've caused, but when I try to leave she tells my stay and still nothing seems to change.
It's I not you, so it don't matter what you say. You can love me or hate me I exist either way.
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Registered: August 27, 2004
Posts: 7
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your mom may not love u but there is other people i am sure loves you listen to purple dog and join a gsa and if u dont know how to get there ask a friend. i dont get she crys about every night she crys and u try to leave from home just take a wail or just go to a friends house or do something and dont ever think she dont love u i am sure she do but she might just not be feeling good
Crystal aka blkangel
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Registered: December 02, 2002
Posts: 638
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join a GSA in your area. go to a few group meetings and discuss what your going through. set aside some time one day to calmly sit down with your mom and explain exactly how you feel about her change in attitude. don't yell or accuse, and give her the benefit of the doubt (assume she doesn't realize what she's doing or how it makes you feel). if you think that kind of discussion would just end in a shouting match, find someone who can moderate like a family therapist. actually, i highly recommend talking to a therapist with your mom. remember, seeing a therapist doesn't mean your crazy or dysfunctional or don't love each other any more. it means you love your mom so much that you'd do anything (even if you think its embarrasing) to get back the relationship you had with her. good luck 
It actually DOES say adam and steve. Thats what you get for reading the translation!
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