My questions is why is it such a crime to be by? Like it's not that bad. Some people have problems with the opposite sex so they want to try the same sex because maybve it's easier to understand them. I'm by and i can't tell anybody because i'm afraid they will judge me and think that i'm a bad person. It's perfectly fine to be gay.

being bi is great
i mean think about it if every1 was bi then there would be twice as many ppl for us all to date.
if they think nething bad of u then it's there atutue that need to change

Well, I'm straight, but I'm not against bisexuals. That doesn't make me a stout defender of them either. I feel ackward when around bisexuals to tell you the truth... Well, ackward when by bisexuals who happen to be males, like me. I was raised watching guys kiss girls, boyfriends trying to find girlfriends, male and female holding hands. To see two guys kiss eachother is just... crazy. It's like against the rules of how I was raised. And then I think, "wow, there is no way I would do something like that myself." Because I wouldn't do it, and I consider myself normal, it makes everything else that opposes me seem abnormal, hence the reason that I may feel slightly uncomfortable around bisexuals.

Now, I'm not going to judge people immediately by their sex preference. I'm not going to insult them or try to humiliate them (and I think any who do try that are assholes). Still, there is that ackward feeling that persists due to my lack of understanding why a man would want to kiss another of the same sex.

Many believe that humans have the inate ability to love anyone. Some people just lean more towards a certain group. Check out the Kinsey Scale some time.
I myself lean towards women. I identify as gay or a lesbian but I really don't care about labels. I am what I am and my sexuality does not define me.I like men I'm just not attracted to them.
I think it's harder now for bisexuals to come out because there are so many negative stereotypes both from the straight community and the gay community.

its all just a stereotype. thats all this world is stereotipical. This world sucks. We like to judge but hate ot when were being judged. i came out of the closet and told my friends and family. they accepted me for who i am not what i like. trust me on this one. if the people you know and love really care about you they wouldnt care about your sexuality.

i think people like to label others. Gay and straight are like black and white. People like that but once we start talking about bisexuals we get into the grey area. I think we dont' like to figure out where the grey goes.

In my soc class we talked about how we portray LGB (lesbien, gay, and bi) is the dominate sexualties in society but we forget about queers, questioning, transgenders, and asexual.

and tbirdfly [QUOTE] On a CSI episode Grissom talked about...QUOTE] it's a fricking show, not reality

There is nothing wrong with it, haters should live and let live!

I'm for being bi.
But I'm just a whatever sexual.

I go to pride fest, and other things to support what I might become, or what I am.
It varies day by day, really...

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Originally posted by tbirdfly:
I think bi doesn't exist. I think it's just someone afraid of or their own homosexuality. If you feel like you've got no support with oyur friends, admit you're a lesbian to yourself. They don't have to know. Don't play it up and date guys if you don't want to, but you don't have to wave it around and make yourself vulnerable to cruel
teen "bullying."

well I'm bi and I'm not fully gay
I'm emotionally and physically attracted to girls so its NOT a sexual thing
And
I'm emotionally and physically attracted to gus too. my close friends know I'm bi and honestly its easier to tell a stranger I am than my friends but most of them are all accepting. And

Try not to label your sexuality.
You like who you like. There's no reason to judge.
Bisexual is no different than any sexual

I think that people are scared of the unknown, that is why they don't like it. I think that being bi is sorta a stage when your indecisive about whether you are straight or gay/lesbian. You can't really decide if you like the opposite sex, or the same sex. Then you might decide, or just stay stuck there.

IM BI AND ONLY MY MOM, 2 OF MY SISTERS AND MY BEST FRIEND KNOS. THE HARDEST PERSON TO TELL WAS MY BEST FRIEND BECAUSE IT WAS LIKE SHE DIDNT REALLY WANT TO HEAR THAT I AM. MY MOM AND SIS'S DONT CARE BUT MY DAD DEFINITLEY WILL, THATS WHY I CAN NEVER TELL HIM IN A MILLION YEARS!

I HATE KNOWING THAT IM BEING JUDGED AND THAT PEOPLE ARE TALKING ABOUT ME, BUT I LOVE WHO I AM AS A PERSON

Meh, isn't it called polysexuality, Jenos? It's not all that confusing.

theres nothing wrong with being bi. actually lot of girls are bi now and even now boys are becoming bi. its okay and perfectly healthy. i am bi and found out that its easier to date girls than boys. but thats just my experience =]

I've always wondered if maybe I was bi because the idea of being with a girl doesn't exactly sicken me. But, then again, I know I like being with boys. And I'm engaged to a boy. So I guess it doesn't really matter whether I am or not, huh?

If you think bisexuality is confusing, try omnisexuality.

Moved here from Peer to Peer - Counsel. Carry on.

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Originally posted by Kiwi42:
My questions is why is it such a crime to be by? Like it's not that bad. Some people have problems with the opposite sex so they want to try the same sex because maybve it's easier to understand them. I'm by and i can't tell anybody because i'm afraid they will judge me and think that i'm a bad person. It's perfectly fine to be gay.

I dont think there is anything wroung with being BI but I'm sure it can be confusing. I know if I ever was my rents would hate me, but go with the flow see what happens. but it doesnt make you a bad person.... there really is nothing wourng with it even though people may say that. Good luck. and Like everyone is saying..everyone really is a little Bicurious. If you really think about it they are even though they dont admit it...its human nature.

It's not your preference, it's how you were born. You don't choose to be gay or bi or straight.

I DONT THINK ITS UCH A HORRIBLE THING TO BE BI I MEAN WHO CARES ITS YOUR PREFERENCE// IF PEOPLE REALLY LOVE YOU AND CARE FOR YOU THEYLL UNDERSTAND THAT THATS THE WAY YOU WANT TO LIVE
AT LEAST YOU'RE NOT HIDING THE REAL YOU