i plan on losing my virginity until after i'm married. i know what all of you are saying:

"wuss."

but i don't care.

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I find it absolutely ridiculous that people plan the day in advance what day they are going to lose their virginity. I speak from experience when I say this, but if you lose your virginity in a rush of passion, and lust and spontaneity, it will be much more special than deciding in advance.

I think that it doesn't matter if you are married or not. But I atleast am going to wait until the time is right. And like one of you guys said, its none of other people's buisness if you are a virgin or not. I think that if you are not married and you want to have sex with your b/f or g/f you should atleast use protection. Because you don't want any trouble. I also think that it depends on what age you have I mean, for a girl my age, I am 13, it's still not right. Its too soon to be loosing my virginity. And to the girls that already have it's alright. I think that sometimes parents make too much of a big deal out of it.

I was born and raised to wait until marriage by my parents....until one day I was driving with my mom and out of the blue she says: "If you want to have sex, plan and use a condom". I was like "woah...that was random". But every day after that, I don't feel pressured to wait until I'm married. I'm going to wait until I feel right, and the guy is someone who I can tell cares about me and loves me. Then I'll prolly lose it. If that is after I am married, then so be it. If not....well...thats great!

i do have to agree with uniqueperson13

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Would you rather have someone that has been saving themselves for you or someone that has been sleeping around?

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My just now boyfriend, who has been my best friend for ever. I have really wanted to go out with him for years, but while we were friends he told me about all the girls he had had. Now don't get me wrong I have had guys, but now i am having second thoughts about our relationship.

I don't mind if a guy has had a few girls, but one that sleeps around, you always have doubts.

Anyways, make sure you partner is testes for HIV and other STDs BEFORE you have sex--and use protection. It will save alot of worry if you do.

Hey its not the kinda thing you just plan in advanced like that.
Um let me see.....what about oct 3rd?
lol I dont know when, all i know is that im gonna wait.

ByE bYe

I am losing my viginity when i am married.
If you have all the money in the world and someone hands you these nasty behind shoes, with holes in them, and no soles. Would you take them? Or go get a new pair that hasn't been worn yet?
I know this is confusing but. i am gonna help you out here. The shoes is your b/f or g/f. Why would you sleep with someone that somone else already had a turn. Would you rather have someone that has been saving themselves for you or someone that has been sleeping around?

I think the most improtant thing is to not mix love with sex. Technically being a virgin is only a physical state and i would hope you wouldn't be pressured into feeling bad about yourself if you have sex before marriage. there are no rules.

*looks at calendar* but the 23rd looks like such a good day!!

This sounds like you are going to pick out a date in the calendar. "Oh! That looks like a good day!".. I mean come one people. You just gotta let it happen whenever it feels right. If its after marriage then the more power to ya. If its before that’s your thing. I'm not married and I'm not a virgin. And I could careless what anyone has to say about it. It's no ones damn business.

After I'm married with my husband

i will be losing mine soon

right ******* now!

[This message was edited by YNLissa on July 30, 2003 at 12:44 PM.]

nah if you wanna stay a Virgin that's cool until your married. Just don't force it on us .

Yeah I already lost mine. I'll tell you that flat out. I am not ashamed of it like society wants women to be. It was the right time for me.