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Picture of Truth_Exists
Registered: July 06, 2008
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So this is pretty much what happened:
Every weekend I get to see my girlfriend.
Usually yes, we have sex. But we use protection.
Now, I don't want to get too into the sex part but pretty much while we where moving around the condom got pulled off and I didn't notice. As of right now, she has missed her period and we think that she is pregnant. I've researched things about missing periods and they said it could be caused by things such as stress or change of sleep schedule. I'm 19 and she's 17. I don't want to say this is a mistake because I will do what I have to do to make sure this baby grows up with two parents that love him/her. I love my girlfriend and I want to find out things we can do if this happens.

Anything will help really, I just need some opinions in what to do.

Besides abortion, I couldn't do that.

Thanks
-Eric
Picture of SLASHIROTH
Registered: October 22, 2007
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Shade i think that due to the fact that hes 19 and she's 17 that the parents know about the relation ship and probably know what they do even if they dont act like it and like he said it might just be a false alarm


"so inToxicated, so sedated"
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Registered: December 27, 2006
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Be careful. She's under age. You've put yourself in a very dangerous place.


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Registered: June 09, 2008
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omg!!!im really happy that you want to raise your child as a real father but you just have to go with your gut..just do what you think is right and it could turn out like you want. But you have to support your girlfriend all the way, be her rock, because..well..im not sure if there's that many gurls where ya'll from getting pregnant at a young age but here..its kind of rare and many people will treat her like a hoe once they find out. you just have to be strong, for the both of you.

best wishes. gaby


-gaby [There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why. -William Barclay]
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