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Hey wuz up I am new on this web site I think I need to give my advice to yo young People and every one else. I am 16 years old I have one child a girl she will be one in 4 days. And still in school about to graduate next year. I do not regret having her and I would not say it was a mistake for her to be in this world I wanted her very much I love kids. This was my option to have a baby at a young age it is hard but I am strong. I am not say'n for some of you young people should go out there and have babies all every where. But when you make the decion make sure it is right. I am still in school my baby father is still with me and will always be with me (make sure you have the right "man" to have a baby by).
Thsi job I have to do is not easy every one told me that I knew that because I raised my sister ever since she was a baby. Please don't mess up your life and have babies at a younmg age and can't finish school or be what you want to be.

Choices:
If you think you are ready to have a child tell me why

 

i know how ya feel~! i made another topic n i just wanted to post this in here too it goes to all the b**tcha$$ ppl out there that talk S**t about us young mothers n fathers! not goin towards anyone who posted in here so far.... but in other topics ppl said sumthings that pi$$ed me off!!!

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Why do people sit and discriminate against teen parents? its not their life, and if people want to judge us they need to look at life in our shoes... Most of us are alot more responsible than those who are not a parent. I got pregnant when i was 14 and i had my baby in april and i am 15... i always hear people talkin bad about me and callin me names behind my back, in other posts i read where people said stuff about how we are too lazy to go out and get put on the pill or use protection so we just open our legs up.... well you are wrong, you may call us whatever you please, but i know for a fact you are just a weak person who isnt sure of yourself, i did NOT plan on getting pregnant n i was on the shot and i used protection, but guess what i still got pregnant, that stuff aint 100 percent effective. We are twice as good as you. We are twice as responsible as most of you. If you want to talk S**t about me or my baby you can but make sure you know what your talkin about. Try doing what we do: goto school, graduate, goto college, take care of your child, support them, and everything else. you cant. You get full nights of sleep n sleep in whenever you want too, we get up through the night wake up early in the morning goto school, work our A$$es off and try our hardest for our children and all you people can do is sit n talk s**t about us. You guys will be the ones that get pregnant or get a girl pregnant and leave her. I am still with my babys father and we are doing great together he gets up wit our child and takes great care of him with me! My baby boy was not an accident, not a mistake, he was the best of SURPRISES two people could make! dont look down on us, because we are some of the strongest people in the world. You do what we do day after day! We give our lifes to our children, you get pissed when you miss a tv show or dont get to hang out wit ur friends for a day, you all care about whos datin who or whos hott or whatever you care about, we care about our children, if they are sick, if they are hungry, if they need our love, who gives a s**t about friends, we have what we need, and until you can say the same dont talk S**t about us!!!!

I love my baby Draven Lee and NOONE can say i dont or change that! I would not change a thing if i could~ its an adventure and its the best thing ever to see your child!
"The good die young, so go out n have some fun! You dont know if you will be around tomorrow so I have someone left here to remind everyone of me!"

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Little Hands And Little Feet, Little Toothless Grins Soo Sweet! Little Eyes That Shine So Bright, Little Arms To Hold So Tight!

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waz poppin i am 17 and 7 months pregnant im still in school theere are a lot of ways to finish school while pregnant or already had a baby im not saying its easy . and i dont think anyone is ready its a big responsability. right now i dont think im ready but its a little to late im scared and i know my family has my back in what ever happens for me obortion is to late and i dont like the thought and after a while of having a lil baby in your stomack you grow attached so adoption is out . ive took care of my lil brothers and my cousins kid and i know having my owne will be harder and forever

i respect your courage to take care of your child. yes you are rite is neccesssary to make the rite decisions. personally, i can't see myself taking care of a kid cos am way too selfish at this stage in life and just learning to care about other people. addin a young child to the mix does not work for me. though that is my life and i woould not encouerage teen parenthood,am glad to know you don't consider your child a mistake

at least you were a teenager... there is an 11 year old pregnant at the middle school, that's a little saddening. aren't there laws against that?
she isn't even a teen. i mean at least your older an could probabally make your own decisions. you know what i mean?
kids can be a handful can't they? i teach alot and babysit, i don't think i could handle kids full time right now. i can't even handle my sibs.

SPWITE later.

i personally have a nephew and a niece and when i babysit them it is all i can do to keep myself sane. ones three the other just turned one. i cant imagine having to care fo rhtem all the time. i hope you can manage it. (oh one of them is crying right know)

for all you coalition haters, i am not imposing my beliefs on anyone, i am just trying to help people see my point.

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