How do you feel about girls? Do you care about looks, personality, age, or style? What attracts your attention? Is there a perfered height differance, or race? would you rather go out with the s lut of the school in hopes you might get some, or the quiet girl in Algebra that's nice to everyone? Answer with complete honesty, I wanna know what you think, no offense will be taken.

Every time I see one of rocindamic's posts, I want to scream.

First of all, I'll spot a girl fa her lookz. Den, I get to know her and find out her personality. Ill find out her likes and dislikes, and do the likes, avoid the dis likes. Then i'd ask her out.

Well I am a girl but I just want to make a comment well a couple of them.

(b4 I say this let me make it clear that it is not a generalization because I never said the keyword ALL)In highschool, boys rnt really looking to settle so they aren't trying to look for the person that can please them emotionally and mentally, but just please their eyes. I mean think about it girls, even when you see another girl getting more attention from guys because maybe their boobs are big or whatever. But in the end you find out that she is just used as a trophy in the relationship, so the guy can show her off to his friends and plus she is just considered a body part and not a human being. So I am sure nobody would want to be treated like that.

Plus stop being as hard on guys. What is the difference between a guy saying that he wants a girl with big boobs than a girl saying they want a guy that is athletic and has at least a 6-pack

iv always had d impressioon that guys mostly look 4 physical things from girls....and always all about what d girl can do 4 them and not vise versa

i start off with looks cuz i mean, a girls personality isnt written on her sleeve you know. i also like really funny girls and really ditzy girls. i like girls to be shorter than me, which leaves a pretty big range, kinda. i also like dark hair despite the blonde personality, lol. well ya thats about it i guess its more in depth but ya.

o ya... this is a MUST. a girl MUUUUUUST be able to dance and i dont mean like funky chicken. lol i mean like grindin and dancin like a hooch. i can, and no offense but if you cant dance its a big turnoff.

wow, i tried to make it short and its like 8 pages long and i seem really shallow lol

later

No i am not a guy, but i do know a bit coz i am surrounded by my boyfriend and his friends alot.
To the girls who think guys are jerks for loving big boobs etc... derr. Anyone with some intelligence would understand why.
I used to get mad because at parties, i was the one with the brown hair and the mossie bite boobs (actually they're not that bad lately, almost upgraded to a b cup! but not yet.), and all the boys would be salivating over so and so with her blonde hair and ample cleavege.
Now, not so. Who gives a ****e? Im pretty, but not because i wear short skirts and halters in winter (trust me ive seen it happen once too many). At a party on the weekend there was a girl we all know there with seriously the hugest boobs ever. I was sitting with the boys and when she'd walk past they'd be like "whooaa check out her cans" etc etc... I just laughed and said "yeah, almost as big as mine!" "Oh for sure nat", they said, And they laughed. A little too hard. But it was all in good fun.

Ive fully gone off track and have no idea why ive just been ranting about that, but the fact of the matter is, yes, guys will always like the pretty girls first off, they will always check out the girls in the short skirts and will always be gobsmacked by big boobs. But if you have character, respect yourself and just have fun, they will realise what your worth and want you more than anyone.

Ok, maybe I'm not losing interest after all *scratches plan to turn lesbian*.

I passed a guy I like at school today and said 'hi' and he nodded and smiled in a 'who the hell are you?' kind of way.

Still. Progress.

You guys probably wanted that information as much as you want a hole in your head, but hey.

Bex

I think I've been single for so long I'm just losing interest in guys altogether. I have a very defeatist attitude, I just figure I'm beaten before I've even begun, so why bother. I don't know why it is. It's not like I'm a hideous person. I just assume guys are indifferent to me.

I am now my girl friends fallback plan if their boyfriends won't go somewhere with them. eg. My friend Zoe, today: 'Oh, fine! I'll go with lesbian Becky!'

I don't know where I'm going with this. Back on subject,

in guys I look for: Compassion, a sense of humour, and intelligence. Looks are secondary, I just have to find them attractive which is sometimes by force of personality alone.

Bex

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If I was dating someone like Jessica Simpson who doesn't know buffalo wings aren't from buffalos...I would either have to choke her or throw myself off a bridge.

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lol.

If they love each other already, physical attraction won't be so important (how else would old people stay together?). Attraction has to be there before love can come. And love is necessary for a lasting relationship. You're right that marriages built solely on attraction tend to result in ruin.

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It's been scientifically proven that physical attraction is necessary for romantic love.

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A Man and women find each other attractive and have a normal healthy love life. The man is in the army gets sent to war and has his face burned. If she no longer finds him attractive can they no longer be Intimate?

Of course, they can.

Beauty is only skin deep. Someone can be disappointed in the physical appearance of their special someone and still be able to carry on a life romance.

It marriages built on physical attraction that result in ruins.

Your shooting form the hip with that statement.

It's been scientifically proven that physical attraction is necessary for romantic love. When I was younger I tried to deny this, but then I realized all the girls I had crushes on were the pretty ones so I gave in to lust. Looks are the first determining factor. If several girls are about equally attractive and I could have either, personality next. Political views aligned with mine are pref b/c I'm a future politician and if it's going to be a long-term relationship I'll need her backing.

Shorter is better. I hate all people taller thasn me (being 16 and only 5'6" has made me very bitter). Hmm.. Race doesn't matter at this stage, but since I believe interracial breeding is the only way we'll ever eliminate racism totally, a non-white wife will be necessary.

I'd definitely take the ****.

Personality does it for me. I don't like ****s. ****s are too easy. I don't like girls with very high morals either. Now for looks. i Like girls with average to Bigger than average boobs. as long as they are not too overweight a little pudge doesn't matter to me

i'll tell you the truth, when i first see i girl i totally don't know looks go first then i try to get to know her and well, if she assumes i'm a freak, she's a loser. then i go try again with someone else. i've been through everyone already. so i now have zero chance and zero friends

I hate that....

No I would not date a girl who is overly friendly as I would not date a girl with biblical morality either. Somewhere in the middle is just fine for me.

I tend to like girls my age or younger, but have also liked much older women. I don't care what race they are and intelligence is important. If I was dating someone like Jessica Simpson who doesn't know buffalo wings aren't from buffalos...I would either have to choke her or throw myself off a bridge.

Of course I care about looks, but looks in a girl is my preferance, what I think is beauty may not be to another. And yes style is important. I can be a crazy lunatic and do wild and crazy stuff and at the same time go out to an exclusive club in a limo...I need somone who can follow along and not always have a problem.

I also tend not to date girls taller then myself, but I have. And I need an outgoing personality who can except many people and many ideas conflicting to their own.

OK I'm not a guy... but this is what I look for in a guy. Looks? Who gives a damn about looks? Most guys I've known that are 'hott' were complete jerks! Or weirdo's.I go for a guy who's honest, smart, funny, carefree, doesn't care about what other thinks, and just wants to have FUN! I'm not to picky.

Guys who said looks- Looks? Well, to bad for me. Because I'm ugly as ****! I'm not going to say that your jerks for liking pretty girls. It's natural. But Stinky... your sick... :crosses arms over chest: nasty...
-DWR

I am looking for the girl that is not dramatic, that just takes life as it comes. Fun-loving and carefree, funny and knows how to laugh, doesn't watch Mtv and could not care less who the most popular celeb is, and isn't needy.

yeah i know i'm dreaming, but if you stop dreaming you stop living...

that and i do admit that there is one physical thing that gets me, eyes. There the window to the soul. If a girls eyes have that sparkle and that undescribable beauty, my jaw hits the ground and she has complete controll.

And there are things guys do to let girls know they like them, but its not as fun if you know so i am not gonna tell you

Are there any things guys do when they like you? I'm not talking about "smiling" and "talking". Be truthful please!

In high school I always went for the s-luts because I wanted to get laid. But now that I'm in college my views have changed a lot. I met my current girlfriend about a year ago, and the reason I picked her is because she has a big heart and she is one of the sweetest girls ever. I think the reason why my mind set changed from getting laid all the time was because I realized I wanted to have relationship based on something other then physical reasons, I think a lot of guys get the picture when they get out of High school.
At first of course my girlfriend drew my attention because she is very pretty, but later on I grew to love other things about her and looks hardly even come to mind that much. For me personally I like shorter girls, about 5'2"- 5'3", and she has to have some style sense. For me there is no preference in race, but I've never really been attracted to black girls, but I guess that would be a preference then.