I don't want to sound like a ***** teen boy. I think that girls should be more open about the topic of sex like guys do (or even guys). Most girls i know think that talking about sex is "sick and gross". I think its educational and you get different opinions. What do you think?

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Also, for those who are having sex... check porn. It'll help with techniques,styles,and pleasure.

it doesn't. take it from a guy who used to watch a lot of porn and now has a lot of sex. The two are nothing alike.

The reason girls aren't open about sex is a lot of the time guys talk about it in a perverted way. I don't like guys telling me how big their dicks are, or asking me if i'm a virgin and if i will have sex with them. I would be open about sex to people who would talk about it in a mature way.

hehehe you Perve!, do you really want to hear what kind of things happen with some girls womanly parts?

its because girls really do take each other the wrong way, and if a girl starts talking about sex and everything, they might think her other friends would think she's a slut or something.

Well, talking about sex is my job. (I work at Planned Parenthood.) I agree, people in general should open up a bit. It's only embarrassing if you treat it as so. Talking about sex isn't gonna get you pregnant, so chill out. =)

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Originally posted by smileygrl810:
oh yeah... it's also very educational... if you have any questions about anything on sex or your own body, go to this site:

www.teenwire.com

it really helps too! Also, for those who are having sex... check porn. It'll help with techniques,styles,and pleasure. Hey it also helps those who aren't getting none... like me... not that I can't though.

Yes! Teenwire is the best!

girls arent open to guys (except boyfriends (unless there cheating on him) about sex but they are very open about it with them selves by selves i mean other girls)

I think that its fine to talk about sex but not all girls are like me they feel uncomfortable and wierd even some guys are like this. I think its ok to talk about but sometimes that subject isnt right at the time being.

I agree with what imastar said earlier, about how girls are supposed to be all prim and ladylike. However, I guess I'm kind of unusual, because I try to be open about it. Being closed off about sex just leads to more misinformation being spread around and therefore risky sex is more likely.
jamaica, just because you're saving sex for marriage doesn't mean sex ed is therefore useless. There are ways to get diseases such as AIDS without having sex (such as through breast milk) and your partner/husband/whatever could have gotten it through one of those ways.
And plus--to all you who are saying condoms aren't safe methods of contraception/disease prevention, condoms are up to 98% effective when used properly. Unfortunately, they are not often used properly (with typical use they're 85% effective), which is why sex ed is so important.

As long as boys put negative labels on girls, girls will be inhibited being open about sexuality (with boys.)

I think alot girls cannot be so open about sex because to us women, its a very intimate thing, and for us, its not a game, we want it to be with someone we really like or love and we want it to be special, so its hard to just come out and say what we like, how many times we've done it and things like that...

The reason men are always thinking about sex is purely biological. Sitting in class, trying to focus on vector calculus, big red flashing lights going off in your head - HAVE SEX WITH THAT GIRL HAVE SEX WITH THAT GIRL - It can be difficult to always ignore and suppress that side of yourself.

no 1 likes be'n called a hoe, even if they are one

ok, well, I usually talk pretty openly about sex, but only in some places, you know? There are a lot of women/girls out there that look on other females really badly if they're open about sex. They think that they're easy or sordid or sex feinds. I don't know if it's like that everwhere but at least in the family I came from there was this unspoken rule that women weren't suposed to have a sex drive. I think that's pretty much been the feeling for hundreds of years and so women are bound to try and live up to that social stigma even if only somewhat. At least that's I think.

-Me

I am pretty open when it comes to talking about sex. To me its a natural thing. Not everyone is doing it, but lets face it the majority is. So it is not like its some sort of secret. For some people it is the way they were raised. For others they are still imature and don't know how to hold a conversation of that sorts yet. Either way I think that sex is a natural thing. And its no reason to be ashamed or embarrased to talk about it.

I am open about sex with my close friends, but if you're too open about sex, then you will be perceived as a ho in some circles. And nobody wants to be thought of like that.

depends also..... i think porn in which women are obviosly faking is stupid..... kama sutra is an art form.....

What about porn involving kama sutra?

porn is stupid. kama sutra is the bets, but you should be very agile