Why do guys like the popular stuck-up, anerexic/bullemic, mean, stupid and not so nice girls?

i mean whats wrong with girls like me?

why are they the ones that guys like so much... i mean a lot of guys say it depends on character and that type of stuff but how many of them actually believe and practice it?

Most of my guy-friends say the only thing they look for in a girl is confidence.
They want their girlfriend to be confident in who she is and stands up for herself.Being pretty is just a plus.But you know, there will be guys out there that'll like you the way you are.

Not all skinny girls are anerexic or bulemic. Its not fair you judge all us off of just one of us because Im skinny yeah I got a minor anerexic issue but Im getting help through familiy and peers Im not stuck up Im not popular im just me so i pulled a basketball player there are big people who dont believe that skinny boys arent good enough for them and thats right in some cases cause thats a lot of women

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Why do guys like the popular stuck-up, anerexic/bullemic, mean, stupid and not so nice girls?

I think that's very much a stereotype. Most guys I know wouldn't be caught dead dating someone like that.

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Originally posted by smiledaniex:
Nothing at all. Guys only like what they see. Somewhere one guy can see not only the face but the mind. So wait I now it sucks but wait. That guy will com around

i take offence to that because not all guys are like that (I.E. me) but to answer the question all guys have certain traits that they find attractive and they look for some one with the most of the traits they find attractive to go out with ect.

A pretty face attracts attention. A pretty personality is what keeps men hanging on to the girl.

Being pretty is only a part of it.

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Just be confident in who you are.

You'd be suprised at what's happened with me. I used to be the most self conscious girl ever. I HATED myself. No one liked me.

Now? 3 years later, I'm not being the one being rejected. I actually got to reject a guy this year several times. I'm not saying I don't get rejected, everyone does, but I'm saying it's nice that I got my turn to reject guys this year. FINALLY! & I have changed a lot. I went from a quiet little girl to an outspoken one. I speak my mind, I do what I want, and I'm my own person. I don't act different around others, you know, you get my point. (:

Someday you'll find a great guy for you.

I guess it is all about your personality and your confidence. Show that you are confident but don't be OVER confident because then you are just cocky . Like me, I have struggled to get guys attention, but then I've realized that I am living my life and not the guys life, so I went along with my life. I became confident in my own body. And I guess that what guys like because now, I am in the middle of two guys (and both were always talking to 'sluts' and I was far from that). So show your inner-beauty!

To be honest, i do thank thats very stereotypical. Im a guy - and yeah, like every guy - if i go into a room of people i don't know - i have my immediate girls - that look hot. But if i was to talk to everyone, i think that more people would realise that its more than looks. I mean, i go for personality. Sure, it helps - the look and things - but at the end of the day - i think its the inside that counts. Out of a toss up between Paris Hilton, and Dawn French Say - Id Prefer Dawn, because, after all, who wants to be seen with a little stuck up brat on there arm? I don't!

Hope Ive Been Some Help!?

Nothing at all. Guys only like what they see. Somewhere one guy can see not only the face but the mind. So wait I now it sucks but wait. That guy will com around