Do you think your bisexual?? I know many people who need help deciding if they truely are.. So if you have any experiences about how you found out you were bisexual or gay just post a comment or whatever.. Alright.. Much love if anyone needs to talk to me, noisemail me.

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It really shouldnt matter because I have a girlfriend and I love ha to death. No Im not confused and yes I do know what I want. It started in kindergarten when I was about 5 or 6 years old. I really didnt know what was going on and you can say I was exploring the world. Me and another little girl had "sex" during naptime. Ever since then I had liked girls no matter what.I tried to shake the feeling, and it seem to never go away. I had secretly liked and fell in love with girls. I had went out with many different guys, and they all wanted one thing SEX Only one guy I dated had loved me for me but things didnt work out. But i met this girl (my now girlfriend) and we talked and talked and from there I fell in love and eventually love her. I guess you can say I had a normal life experience but things didnt work to my benefit.

I personally knew that I was bi in fourth grade.

Me and my best friend were deciding to practice kissing on each other, but "just to practice for future boyfriends". We both liked it a little too much. But then, I was too scared to let myself think that I was so I ignored it.

By the time that 7th grade had rolled around, me and her had done everything to each other. It was then that we both announced that we were bi, and began dating.

My point, (however obscure it is..) is to tell you that if you find yourself sexually attracted to both men and women, but you also find yourself EMOTIONALLY attracted to both sexes as well, then you are most likely bi.

That's how I figured it out.

Okay, I thought I knew I was but I just don't know anymore, I've only had one girlfriend and she hurt me and I think thats partly the reason. I only have feelings for one girl right now but I can't see myself do anything more than kissing girls yet I like watching girls doing stuff on sites like youtube...I'm very much attracted to them but I don't want to be with them...what do you think?

I don't know if I am or not. The idea of being with a girl doesn't gross me out like my straight friends would be. Also, I see beauty/attractiveness in both sexes, but I don't know if that makes me bi.

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Originally posted by mew_mew_kitty:
i dont know if im bi or not...i used to...well experiment i guess with my best girlfriend in 7th grade. i thought we were only playing though...but i know it affected me, and now i dont know who or what i am...

I think a lot of people "experiment" at some point in their lives, just because you did doesn't necessarily make you bi. On the other hand if you are bi I don't think you need to worry about defining yourself like that. *shrug* Just go with whatever feels comfortable for you.

i dont know if im bi or not...i used to...well experiment i guess with my best girlfriend in 7th grade. i thought we were only playing though...but i know it affected me, and now i dont know who or what i am...

i think theres a lot of ppl who aren't really bisexual but they say they are. theres a difference between actully having feelings for someone of the same gender and being curious or willing to eperiment with those of the same gender.

I actually think that everyone is bisexual to some degree. I mean, I'm sure that almost everyone has had crushes or relationships with members of the same sex. Where I live it's not a big deal, but it still depends who you're surrounded by. I think more people admit that they're bisexual in an accepting enviornment.

personally i think i've almost always known. and i'm proud. and anyone that has anything negative to say about it, is obviously not worth it.

i came out to my friend who pretended she wss bi for attention, i thought it was real at the time. i was relieved, then i found out it was a lie. and i'm happy to say that it was spread about to everyone. it was easier to accept myself when i realized how comfortable to know i wasn't lying to anyone.

for all the bisexual people i think good can express your feeling I think nothing wrong and Iam here everyone doesn't have someone who you are don't exacpts you.

I considered myself bisexual since I was in 6th grade. I was a little confused around the 3rd grade, when I knew I had this huge... infatuation with a girl. I thought the feeling was going to go away, I was still in elementary and don't think too deeply in that subject, but I still remembered how I felt when I was around that girl. We became good friends, but I couldn't tell her about my secret, that kind of attraction is something laughed about in that age. Hell, it still is NOW.

One of my closest friends now, Kayla, still considers me to be bi-curious... since I get really flirty with both sexes. But I honestly didn't choose to feel this way. I also remembered how I struggled to accept myself just 4 years ago. I tried to brush away my feelings for girls, and try to like guys more. Which also formed a manic depression for me. (Also known as bipolar disorder) No, I'm not saying being bisexual made me that way... just repressing my feelings and making myself miserable. Then I met Ashley, I also had a huge crush on her. I told her how I felt, and she accepted me... but she still loves me like a sister. [She now lives in Chicago] I finally came to accept myself around the 7th grade.

I still haven't "came out" yet. The only people I told were my mother and my older brother and cousin. [Kayla and my other friend, Laura, pretty much found out on their own] People claim that I'm only "pretending" to be bisexual because it's a "trend" in modern culture, and I'm still 14... but I don't have to prove anything to anyone. I know how I felt. I know what I've been through as a kid. Yes, I have this attraction with both guys AND girls, and I'm not pretending to be. Feelings are genuine, and cannot be cloned into something it's not.

i no it's danm confuseing
don't look for ne11 to tell u wat u r coz well u can't tell unless u r that person who confused
i'm bi don't worry theres like a millon diffrent levels of bi ness if u confused try it out theres nowt ronug with it and sometimes it the onli way u can tell.
if u wanna talk to me niose mial i can help it's not easy but it great wen u no wats going on

Well in todays society its a TREND to be bi. some people really are and some people just think they are because everybody else does it. I dont label myself as bisexual but im attracted to both sex.

im bi... i know i am.. i just think that gender shouldn't matter.. if u fall 4 someone that's just it..

Im not sure if im BI or STRAIGHT I have an eye for girls and boys/ CONFUSED

I think its easier for a girl to try bi things than for guys.

Im a Bisexual
I personaly think itz about attraction
If you like somebodyy you have the right to show it.
And if peaople have a problem with it..well who really cares

im straight no dening it

I am bisexual and its really difficult to come out h*ll I havent even come out completely yet just close friends. But at one point everyone found out b/c of this ex I had telling everyone we were. I've never had that much trouble in my life before then, it was horrible but in the end it doesnt matter what they think, b/c I just wanted my friends to accept me and they did! Its still difficult going through it and I wish I could take my own advice and not care, unfortunaltely; thats not the way I am.