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Picture of Dawnonutility
Registered: January 24, 2005
Posts: 5
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First off, this has already been menchined by me in another article but more edited, so heres there bigger story......
Well me and my girlfriend have been goin out for almost a year, I know it's kinda early to say I love her, but after some stuff that's occured and what we've been through it's well appropriate to say now.....but not important, just thought id point out that breaking up would NEVER be an option in any of this as it never has, but heres the prob....Well she's been a cutter for like a couple years now, and she has depression issues which kinda are most of the problem. Ok she has depression, and her parents dont't believe in mind problems like that, so they think shes faking it......and a while back she was brought to social services by a chick who found out she cut, and they said to her parents that she needs help, and her parents lied to them and said she already had help, - which is NOT not true- so shes had depression for quite some time, and still cuts....she is able to talk about it, but when she gets depressed, like when she sees her scars, she gets so sad and crys her eyes out and just cuts again and adds scars. She was scuicidal before we started going out, and now she isn't but she still gets depressed, and when she does she gets very very mad and i can't even talk to her because she'll say things she doesn't mean and it has gotten me very pissed at her and im quite passive agressive. But I mean we've had to come to the solution where if she's depressed, we don't talk so she doesn't say things to me she doesn't want to, I mean I know she doesn't want to say these things, but when you're like that, theres nothing you can do about it, and she has tried like taking out her anger on like writing **** down and stuff, but it never works for her, and shes not very social at all, so she doesnt like talking to anyone else other than me about it.....So she can't get pills, she doesn't like any of her friends, and I mean I'm like all that's left for her and I can't even talk to my own girlfriend when she's depressed, and I'm so scared that this is going to kill us, and eventually shell do something I DONT Want her to do in the end which i think would be very possible..... I need help, please, anyone with feedback would be very much appreciated.
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Registered: June 09, 2003
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Wish I could but let's see..... Paragraphs


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