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Picture of bextherex
Registered: May 18, 2002
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So what do you think? Is it better to have dreams or is that just setting yourself up for disappointment? Myself, I am very cautious when it comes to dreams (as in hopes/aspirations, not the night-time thing), and sometimes I wish I could just let go and believe that they're going to happen.

What's your view?

*cynical dreamer*

Bex Wink
Registered: October 08, 2003
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If we didn't have dreams, what would we have to look forward to?

Evy
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Registered: November 06, 2003
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Heyhey, you are only disapointed if you let yourself be. You only fail when you tell yourself you've failed. I set very high goals and aspirations. The way to reach what you or other people may call unrealistic goals? Don't give up, don't LET yourself 'fail' or fall short. Fight for it. Think about this...99.99% of all goals are attainable...if you try hard enough. Really think about it. There is ALWAYS a way to get where you want...it might take a ton of work and sacrifice and dedication, but come on, it's not impossible. It's cliched, but if you want it bad enough you'll get it. You have to approach goals with an active attitude, not a passive one. MAKE it happen. Fight for what you want.
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Registered: September 06, 2003
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Every1 is talking about dreams leading "paths in your life" and "helping you work for your goals". I think I am thinking of the wrong dreaming. Like SLEEPING, right? Lol. One time I had a dream about riding a four-wheeler through COSTCO while juggling socks, but then someone stole one of my socks and through it into the street and a duck ran over it in a car. Can anyone here juggle? Sorry, random thought.
Picture of collielvr101
Registered: July 02, 2003
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Dreams lead to success. its definately okay to dream! as long as its unrealistic, or youre not willing to work for it. but, for the most part, if you have a real dream, even the laziest person will work for it at least a little bit...Wink
Registered: September 11, 2003
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Dream Away! I think that's a privelege in life that we dont appreciate enough. No one can take away your dreams but you...You choose whether to achieve them or not. They give us a great goal or objective to reach and only make us feel stronger when we accomplish them. Keep dreaming...keep striving...keep living live with a smile upon your face, and nothing will bring you down. - JaYofHM
Picture of audreee
Registered: July 01, 2003
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ofcourse its important. what a s2pid question (j.k)

hehehehe..
dreams r important cos it sets up a path..u dont get lost and u hav a certain reason 2 live..and that it to reach ur goals or ur dreams...

w/o dreams, things seem so dull, living without wanting something and without any direction in ur life..

the higher you dream d better..
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Registered: September 19, 2003
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Dreaming rox! (As long as u have multiple dreams) Sometimes they work out. And there is nothing better than when they do. Get a goal. Work towards it. Try as hard as u can 2 succeed, but even if u don't, take it in your stride. No biggy. Sometimes it's a major disappointment, but you move on. Dreams and goals are all that keeps me going sometimes. If u keep track of them, u'll find that many of your dreams do come true, but not always when u want them 2. Dream on! Razz
Picture of Nicoley
Registered: June 05, 2003
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I think it's right to dream because it helps you work towards your goals. I dream way to much though.

-Nicole
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Registered: July 07, 2003
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"Wango". That's great. lol. Yes. You should have dreams. Dreams make you who you are. Have a dream to go to a certain school, or have a specific job. Dreams keep people going. Smile
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Registered: September 06, 2003
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when i read the title of the thread i thought it was real dreaming, lol. i LOVE dreaming. i always have weird ones like (real dream) when i walked with a seal barefoot into an ice cream store and i got a pineapple popsicle and the seal ordered a wango. *cross between a watermelon and mango, lol*. if u mean like dreams like thinking about weird things during the day, i love doing that, but i dont think that is what u really meant . . . you should CERTAINLY have dreams and goals! it gives you something to look forward to, but if u become too obsessed and fixed with what you think is "perfect" you could miss a lot. i really liked this guy at school that i thought liked me, and one of my best guy friends asked me out and i blew him off because i liked that other guy. now i see that i dont like the other guy at all, and i find myself asking HIM out. just make sure to think about things in advanced before you answer and dont just go along to your dream because better things do happen. Wink
Registered: October 10, 2003
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I wouldn't want my dreams to come true either, I dreamed that my crush called me a *****. lol.


Seriously, though, I have one dream: To be a writer. Smile
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Registered: September 15, 2003
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HEY A2ZO9
it's been a while but not because of those idiots on here. i have working and everything and that kept me from coming on here. did you miss me though? i know Poncho did!!!!!!!!! lol Big Grin Roll Eyes Smile
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Registered: January 06, 2003
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I think that sometimes dreaming about what you want for yourself can sometimes give you that little kick of inspiration to go after it.
Registered: August 20, 2003
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Hey cbabs, haven't seen u on here for a while....lol
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Registered: September 15, 2003
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i think it depends on the person. for me i have aways had the dream to become a doctor and i'm on my way to becoming one.
Registered: August 20, 2003
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I like dreaming, hey, u have to have something to think of at nite.
I dream a lot, I think everyone should dream.
I wouldn't want them to come true tho because one time I dreamt that threw up all over this really hot guy at school..... Eek
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Registered: October 01, 2003
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I dream. Way too much. Mostly during Math...
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