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Picture of ScoobyGirl91290
Registered: August 24, 2006
Posts: 13
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Okay, I know that I'm gay, but can't seem to tell my parents that..I've allready posted something asking how to tell them...But they think I should have a really good-looking boyfriend who is popualr...I know that bringing one home would really make them happy, especially if he and I were together for a couple of months to a year or even through high school...But no guys that I know are like that, or if they are, they don't like me as more than a friend...So I can't even try to make my parents happy through high school...
My next problem is I'm crushing on my best freind and I have been for like a year now and she knows it...She has a girlfriend and would never consider dating me...And since we have first period together and have to sit right next to eachother because of the way our class got set up ny schedualling, I can't get her out of my head...I don't know how to move on from her and it has pushed me into this deep depression for like the past couple of months...Does anyone have any suggestions?


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Picture of ChaosSplintered
Registered: August 05, 2006
Posts: 360
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Tell them. The sooner you tell them, the better off you will be, in my opinion.

Now, why are you so worried about making your parents happy. This is your life, not theirs, and who you devote your love to, in any form, should meet your requirements, and be true to you, not your friends. If you don't have any guy friends that you want to date, then why do you want to in the first place? I do not expect your parents to be angry that you don't have a boyfriend, because you do not want them.

This is not their happyness. It is yours.

As for your crush. Your crush is taken, and should be considered off limits, in my opinion. Why? Because she has someone she is happy with. If it turns out that she wants to be with you instead, then so be it, but if she's found someone she likes, I'd say stay away. Why? Because you wouldn't perticularily want that to happen to you, in turn.


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