stay abstinece or not?

positive no std's when u get married negitive u have to wait to get married

so, I'm guessin your answer is....not

How do all of you virgins know its the right thing for you? **** i'm glad I have sex. best thing ever.

MY FAVORITE SAYING: THE 7 S's

Safe Sex Sucks So Screw Someone Special!!!

we only live once, and so i think if you wanna have sex, go ahead. its your life, and tomorrow you might die. thats was my biggest fear, to die a virgin. i dont have to worry anymore! but if you really can live your life a virgin, never knowing if youll die before finding out what its like, then good for you...its just not for me

I'm waiting until I'm married to have sex.

Postive Aspects: If I do in fact get pregnant than I'll have someone to support me

I more than likely won't get an STD unless I was aware that my husband had one before we married.

I'll know for sure that he's not in it for sex because I doubt any man would marry me just so he could get some.

I'll know that the person I sleep with will truly love me.

I'll only have slept with one person my entire life, meaning there's no way any relationship I'd ever had would be based on sex.

You'll never be called a ho or a **** and people will respect you for your will power.

I'm a Christian so this is what God wants and that's always good. Truthfully, the other reasons are more important to me and this is just a benefit.

Negatives: You have to wait which I guess can be trying but I haven't been with anyone who didn't agree with me yet.

You may lose a couple of significant others who don't wish to wait. In my opinion, if they can't wait to sleep with you then they're not worth your time.

You risk being called a prude, etc. but so what? You'll be able to cherish a significant moment with the person you're spending the rest of your life with.

Abstinence is my way. You don't have to agree but please consider it.

Well, I don't see the point of having sex with a man that I'm not entirely sure will be with me the rest of my life. I'd like to give myself to the person I'm utterly devoted to and have said my marriage vows to. It makes it all the more special and meaningful, to me.

I see the point of saying that it's meaningful whenever you have sex, but honestly? It can't be so meaningful if you've had it with so many people/so many times before marriage. It'll be new and exciting at that time, and the final sign of absolute commitment to the person you love.

And, of course, it lessens the risks of STD's.

I'm all for abstinence. It just makes the act of sex more beautiful when you share it with your spouse for the first time.

I'm saving myself until I marry and settle down with the right woman for me. Sex without love is just pointless, and sex without marriage is just not what I want to do.

yeah yeah i agree you're sharing ureself but don't equal sex to death please! if u wanna wait til the right person, cool but if the only reason u're waiting is because u're afraid then... it's kinda sad

Yes, abstinence is the only way for me. If you have sex with someone that you are not yet married to, you are devoting your body and trusting the person with your life (yes, folks, STDs can kill you ) when you are not yet ready to spend your life with them. So, yes, abstinence.

*frick*

If your an idiot, than yes, no sex for you stay away.

But if your mature, and know what your doing, than feel free to have sex all you want.