like all these boyz wanna have sex withme. its so hard cuz i wanna whate but then again i dont.
my viginity is really special 2 me. and i wanna find the right person 2 break it.....its so hard. cuz it feels likemyour the only one who hasnt "did it"yet and everyone else is far beyound you........its so much pressure...its crzy

If you're not sure, then you should wait. You don't want to do something hasty and regret it later. Besides, do you really want your first time to be while you're still in school? If things don't work out, you'll still have to see him every day and there's already enough to feel awkward about in school. Just my opinion.

ok look im 17 and take my advice just mait until your happy and in love with the right perosn and your old enough to get married but bf you do think is this worth it is he the right guy for me . and make sure you know if he really is a virgin with no std's because this way you'll have a carefree life with just love and joy. because carrying any std is just the saddest thing i cannt describe. iam with my second love and the second person i ve been active with but to be honest. you never know if who youre with is the right one! and i always wish i never lost mine to a jerk who got me pregnant and left me after i miscarried. "but your loved and every gurl is worth the wait"

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when you finally meet the guy you are gonna marry you have to tell him that you have done had sex and that he want be the first.

I'll pretend that made sense. Okay, so who says he'll actually want to be the first, or even care?

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Plus there is a chance if you do have sex before you find mr.right you have a chance of getting pregnant and plus sexually disease too.

Um, condoms? the pill? A combination of the two?


Just listen to what your heart tells you about whether or not to have sex, not society. Just be sure you really are ready, based on your standards. Although, (and this is the voice of experience talking here) being with someone you love is sooo much better than something casual.

I think that you should wait until you are married. And I know a lot of people say that, but it is true.

Cause if you go ahead and have sex before you get married then when you finally meet the guy you are gonna marry you have to tell him that you have done had sex and that he want be the first. Cause if you don't then when you do get married and you tell him then, he can divorce you and if you don't tell him before you are married then in God's eyes it's as if you two were never married.
If he really loved you it wouldn't matter and he would still marry you.

Plus there is a chance if you do have sex before you find mr.right you have a chance of getting pregnant and plus sexually disease too.

I can guarantee you that you're not the only one who hasn't had sex yet. How about this...you keep your virginity until you feel like you're ready? In the meantime you can join the special YN club, "The poor, 19 year old virgins." (And it's okay that you aren't 19 yet, it just goes to show you that when we were your age, we still had our "v-cards" too.)

You're thirteen. Your body's still maturing, as is your mind. It sucks you have to face that, but wait. That way, you won't have to worry about so much like emotions, pregnancy, STDs.

Have fun being a teenager. As soon as you hit late teens, it's not always as much fun.

Just say no.
If they can't understand that, say it louder.
If they can't understand that, then that's a pretty stupid guy and you'd most likely not want to spend your life with them.

Everyone may have already done it.
Sure. That's nice for them.
But who cares? Everyone else isn't far beyond you, because sexual maturity doesn't mean anything. When was the last time a porn star was given the noble peace prize?