first off, there's no need to call names, but cussing is overly attacked. i mean grow up, they're just words. i use them frequently and i'm not a preteen and i have a very nice vocabulary otherwise. sticks and stones people, sticks and stones...
back to the subject
most people have abortions early in the pregnancy, before it's a fetus.
and as you pointed out it depends on other living things to regenerate (cells) and so is kinda like a virus in that it's parasitically using something else to live and regenerate. there's been alot of talk about whether or not viruses are living things, or to what degree.
they're kinda like sperm... something that needs the body to live, and has to potential to become a human. oh wait a minuet spermicide is okay, and all other birth control. That's a contradiction...
still i don't get the deal, why people can't just control their drinking and control themselves, or even use birth control is beyond me.
quote: you mean the embryo? Yea i dont think they have oppinions since they aernt alive yet
Actually, the embryo becomes a fetus after 8 weeks in the womb of the mother. The baby's heart beats on the 25th day for most, which is in the mother's first trimester. This fetus develops fingers, toes, has developing organs, and is ultimately dependent of the mother for survival. How is this being not living?
quote: People who have abortions are not doing it to avoid the "inconvenience" as you so horribly worded it. They are avoiding a child being born into a bad situation.
You're really in no position to speak for every female who has had, or will have, an abortion.
quote: It is much more responisble to have an abortion if you cant handle the baby then to either have it raised as a piece of **** or put up for adoption which im sorry to tell you isnt that great of a thing. AT ALL.
Not all children who go to adoptive homes are treated badly. Maybe you've had bad experiences somewhere. But at least the child will get a chance to live. He/she is robbed of that chance if their mother decides to end their lives before they come into the world.
quote: Teddy, im not sure what you are rambling about but it sure as hell makes you look like a retard
You sound angry. Teddy makes just as many valid points as you do. Don't degrade someone's opinion because it's different from yours.
quote: Jookly, first off, take that stick out your butt.
Cant its been in there for to long.
As for swearing.... what the **** is all your ******* deal? Dont people ****ing swear where you live? I know that in the office i hear and use swear words EVERY DAY (just as i am sure you do at school). They are just words that everyone uses and mabey when you grow up you will learn to use them.... ****er.
quote: it's really sad to see so many misinformed people here. abortion is murder-hands down, no questions asked. this whole pro-choice thing--what about that child's choice? everyone is completely forgeting about that. with all of the different contraceptives out there, if you still get pregnant it's your own fault!!!
"the childs choice" - you mean the embryo? Yea i dont think they have oppinions since they aernt alive yet. And just so you know you are VERY missinformed. People who have abortions are not doing it to avoid the "inconvenience" as you so horribly worded it. They are avoiding a child being born into a bad situation. I geuss you think that we dont have quite enough dip****s in this country and need a few more bad seeds. It is much more responisble to have an abortion if you cant handle the baby then to either have it raised as a piece of **** or put up for adoption which im sorry to tell you isnt that great of a thing. AT ALL.
and Teddy, im not sure what you are rambling about but it sure as hell makes you look like a retard.
it's really sad to see so many misinformed people here. abortion is murder-hands down, no questions asked. this whole pro-choice thing--what about that child's choice? everyone is completely forgeting about that. with all of the different contraceptives out there, if you still get pregnant it's your own fault!!! if you were too irresponsible to use all of the protection that was available to you, don't you think you owe it to that child to go through 9 months of inconvenience in order to give them life? they didn't ask for you to be stupid. that was your choice. there are so many people out there who can't have children and who would love to adopt that baby. don't you think that they should be given that chance? i know that there are already a lot of children just waiting to be adopted, but at least they are alive. besides, you have the opportunity to find (hand pick) a family for your baby if you take the initiative. i just think that abortion is used for all of the wrong reasons. more often than not, people use it to fix "mistakes." some of those being unwanted pregnancies or predictions of disabilities/diseases. get over it and start stepping up to the plate and your responsibilities!!!oreochik03@aol.com
it's really sad to see so many misinformed people here. abortion is murder-hands down, no questions asked. this whole pro-choice thing--what about that child's choice? everyone is completely forgeting about that. with all of the different contraceptives out there, if you still get pregnant it's your own fault!!! if you were too irresponsible to use all of the protection that was available to you, don't you think you owe it to that child to go through 9 months of inconvenience in order to give them life? they didn't ask for you to be stupid. that was your choice. there are so many people out there who can't have children and who would love to adopt that baby. don't you think that they should be given that chance? i know that there are already a lot of children just waiting to be adopted, but at least they are alive. besides, you have the opportunity to find (hand pick) a family for your baby if you take the initiative. i just think that abortion is used for all of the wrong reasons. more often than not, people use it to fix "mistakes." some of those being unwanted pregnancies or predictions of disabilities/diseases. get over it and start stepping up to the plate and your responsibilities!!!
I'm not trying to annoy anyone or anything, I'm just trying to make everyone see where I'm coming from. That's why I'm writing this again, well, I'm coying it onto this post but you know what I mean. Don't worry this will be my last time, I'm scared someone might get mad at me
It Hurts
Um.......I respect everyone's reasons for thinking abortion is right or for thinking it's wrong. But there's one thing that's begging me just a bit, I'm sorry but I have to say this because some people with their posts and all are making me feel bad . I don't like that most of the post I read said that if the baby is going to have mentally or physical condition that the mother should have an abortion
This is my reasons why: 1) I really do believe that kids with mental condition, do somehow, someway understand what is going on in the world and with them. It's just no one has really proved that, yet but that doesn't mean it can never happen. That kid who is going to be killed could be the person who proves it. 2) No one really is 100% sure that the baby will be mentally ill, the doctors just guess that from the picture they already see so the soon to be mother could be killing a perfectly fine baby without knowing it. 3) My mom's doctors said that I was going to be mentally ill because I was going to be born with a rare disease that would cause the child to be brain dead . They said that I could have a physical condition on top of the disease and on top of the mentally ill part. They said to get an abortion. Well, my mom and dad said "no" as you can see and now here I am. I have the rare disease + another illness, but I'm glad to say, I'm not mentally ill and I wasn't born deformed. Do you get what I'm saying here? I know you do.
I just wanted to say that because it really hurts that some of you would have killed me and others just like me. It hurts a lot and I want everyone to see that and know where I'm coming from, please Well Thanks for reading Bye N Have a nice day Everyone
Well.. Abortion is a big issue with you poeple I see. Well it's not really murder, because what if the baby has really bad health problem? Why would you want your child to grow up in that kind of postition? Or what if you were raped ,and got pregant? Sometimes abortion option is good if that is what happened. But if the person just got pregant and had abortion , I think that is wrong. Yes that is when I think it's murder. Poeple do what they must to fix things,and plus it's thier life,and decision.Not yours, and not mine.
I don't think it's right to do that in any given solution but I'm not going to sit here and say it's wrong either. I think it's the woman's choice and if she does get an abortion, I won't think she is a bad person, I won't think any less of her. I would take into considertion what the solution is and how this woman is feeling but to me it's not right in any case. Well Bye N have a nice day Signed NoOneOFImportance
quote:and there is ALWAYS the choice to give up the baby for adoption.
No, there isn't. There are millions of cjildren waiting to be adopted. What's so hard to understand?
quote:and if you cant have the baby the right way (through the vagina) they can give you a c-section. if you dont want the scars, well tough ****, cuz ur the one who wanted the baby!
Gee, that's so nice and understand. "Tough ****", yeah. Not everyone who gets pregnant wanted to. Sometimes a woman wants to get pregnant, but later realizes she could wait. Or she finds out her baby will have problems, health or otherwise. There's rape. There's so many situtations, that you can't say flatout that abortion is right or wrong.
just to let anyone know: about my poem: it was the conscience of a woman who had had an abortion. she is thinking about what her baby could have looked like. the thoughts are haunting her. then it tells what its supposed to be like when a woman is having an abortion (to the baby.. if he is able to communicate properly). and also, abortion is murder, not only carried out by the doctor, but by the woman who decides to have the abortion. and there is ALWAYS the choice to give up the baby for adoption. and if you cant have the baby the right way (through the vagina) they can give you a c-section. if you dont want the scars, well tough ****, cuz ur the one who wanted the baby!
WHAT, DO YOU HAVE COTTON IN YOUR EARS? PRO-CHOICE IS NOT ANTI-LIFE!! I'm not knocking christians, or God for that matter. But seriously, does He (God Almighty) speak back to YOU?Faula420@earthlink.net
quote: do you know how many children, on average, are killed per day in their mothers' wombs because they think they have no other choice? 4,200. That's four thousand, two hundred innocent souls PER DAY who are murdered.
Don't unborn babies go to heaven?
Maybe I'm wrong about that, someone correct me if I'm mistaken.
But if that's the general opinion ... isn't abortiona GOOD thing?
"ChristianSoldier says: >>and Our Creator should be listened to above anything that you or I have to say, because Our Creator (God) knows best. If He says we shouldn't murder anybody, I KNOW that we all ought to listen,<<
So if your God (or the voices in your head you believe is God) starts telling us we should kill, whatever will we do? Will you be first in line? Faula420@earthlink.net"
first of all, what do you mean, voices in your head? how do you think we all came to exist anyway? but i wont go into that now. what i really want to know is, do you honestly think that Christianity, a religion known for promoting the well-being of our fellow man (and the reason why I, and probably a lot of other people, belong to this site), would, after 2,000 years of nonviolence, just say "oh well now its good to kill people-God said so"? Martin Luther King, Jr. was a minister. Mother Teresa was a nun. Do we notice a pattern here? i'm not knockin other religions, i'm just saying that i dont know why youd think we'd just start promoting murder- which is exactly what you "pro-choice" (anti-life) people are doing. we're not stupid, certainly not to the point where we'd think God is just made up or where we'd make our own opinions of what God says. no matter how you interpret the Bible, it says that killing is wrong.