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Registered: March 30, 2004
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I want to know if dating at my age is really worth it. I mean ur obviously gonna break up sooner or latter so whats the point? I've never had a boyfriend (and i'm sry guys) but i really don't see the point if u know the relationship is gonna end.
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Registered: April 24, 2003
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And 'your opinion' is really more of a stereotype, now isn't it?


If you want to call it that.

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If all guys want is sex than explain to me how My girlfriend and I are still virgins after 3 years of dating?


Alright let me re-phrase myself. Not all guys want sex, just most.


I have very good reasons to have this opinion. If you were with someone for a year, and they would got mad at you for not having sex with them, so they had sex with 2 other girls, and then forced you into other things, and got so upset that when you talked to another boy, who was strictly just a friend, punched the wall because it was closer to him than you were, you would feel great dislike for males, too.
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Registered: July 08, 2003
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I personally think that dating at your age is fine just as long as you don't take it too seriously. For me when I was that age it was a fun experience but I didn't go overboard on it or go too far with it. Usually at that age you just get really huge crushes that you think you're gonna love for the rest of your life but you have so much time ahead of you to find the right person. So if you do get a boyfriend, just have fun...and I don't mean sex by that because you're probably not mentally ready. But I mean like don't start thinking that you're in love and start planning your wedding. You have the rest of your life to do that. Smile
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Registered: January 23, 2004
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I dont think its worth it because at 13 and younger you really dont kno what u want in a guy. Most of the time you just have a boyfriend so that u can say that you have one. I guess to some ppl havin a bf or gf at 13 and younger makes them feel good about themselves. Also, most of the time boys at that age want to see what they can get outta you. Young boys play alot of games and if you dont kno how they think and the way they do things, your gonna get urself n some trouble. Havin a bf that young is not a good idea.
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Registered: March 11, 2002
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You're a guy...it figures something like that would come out of your mouth.

quote: BOYS ONLY WANT SEX


My opinion stands strong.


Fine then. What's wrong with sex? You guys talk like it's a bad thing?

And 'your opinion' is really more of a stereotype, now isn't it?
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Registered: October 21, 2003
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luvabug22 I think your ignorance is funny. Being a guy I find it offensive that that is how the media has made guys look. If all guys want is sex than explain to me how My girlfriend and I are still virgins after 3 years of dating? Kinda ****s up your opinion which you have no proof of.
Registered: April 01, 2003
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Lb22, as much as you don't want to admit it, it's completely natural to have those urges. Maybe you're some sort of freak human experiment that isn't attracted to anyone, and you would rather cry alone in your room than date.
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Registered: April 24, 2003
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You're a guy...it figures something like that would come out of your mouth.

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BOYS ONLY WANT SEX



My opinion stands strong.
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Registered: March 09, 2004
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What's wrong with sex? you guys talk like its a bad thing.
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Registered: October 05, 2003
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I'm sure your mother is a very nice lady.




She can be, but other times she can be a b*tch. But then again, all woman can be b*tches, if you know what i mean. Wink
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Registered: April 02, 2004
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My friends mother started dating her husband when she was 14 and there happily married with 3 kids. I think it's hard to tell when it time for someone to start dating. There's no right or wrong answer to this question. Smile
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Registered: April 24, 2003
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I'm sure your mother is a very nice lady.
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Registered: October 05, 2003
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I said that out of experience, not because I read it in magazines. Sorry to all i offended by saying that, it's just truly what I feel.




I wasn't offended and i'm sry for comparing you to my mother cuz i bet you are a lot better than her.
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Registered: April 24, 2003
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Yes, that's why I have this opinion.
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Registered: March 11, 2002
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Then you must not know real great guys...
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Registered: April 24, 2003
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I said that out of experience, not because I read it in magazines. Sorry to all i offended by saying that, it's just truly what I feel.
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Registered: March 11, 2002
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remember girls: BOYS ONLY WANT SEX


Man, you should quit quoting your teeny-bopper mags. I know a lot of guys, ans sure, some of 'em want sex, or say they do, but then I know quite a few who'd practically run away if confronted with the idea of sex. Frankly, I think I know more girls who want to have sex than boys. So chew on that.
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Registered: October 05, 2003
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BOYS ONLY WANT SEX




You are just like my mother and i hate her.
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Registered: April 24, 2003
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Oh well. My opinion, and I'm sure I'm not the only girl on here who feels that way.
Registered: April 01, 2003
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Lb22, that would be like me saying all girls want to do is prove themselves. Completely false, and stereotypical.
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