dating at any age is pointless. each and every relationship you ever get into will end in heartbreak. remember girls: BOYS ONLY WANT SEX

Why is thirteen such the lucky number?

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Not all young love is going to end.

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Didn't say it was. Just said that it's okay to have fun at your age and younger.

And excellent, you and your boyfriend can see yourselves getting married. I've been there, too. Things changed--drastically--but I've been there.

I'm just saying you should leave yourself open to options. You'd be amazed at how much people change, and there's no reason to tie yourself down automatically. JUST HAVE FUN!

Excuse me? What attitude, and who are you to say why my relationships don't last?

If you have that attitude towards all your relationships, no wonder they don't last, because you don't expect them to!

It depends what you're looking for. I started "going out" with guys when I was 11ish, maybe, and really haven't had many serious relationships, and I'm 16 now. but from each of my "boyfriends" I've learned a lot about relationships, a lot about the types of boys I like, and TONS about myself.

Dating is just a way to explore, sorta test the waters around you. And I think (and hope) that at 13 , marriage isn't a big issue, and sex probably shouldn't be either.

So if you want to date, or "go out" oreven just flirt, do it, just make sure you're having fun, and being safe. That's all that really matters

That's a terruble thing to think.

Dating is pointless if you're not looking for someone to marry.

unless your having sex dating is pointless.

Yea i agree its find to "go out" at 13 or under if thats what you can even call it. Just dont get to rapped up in it.

Just go ahead an have fun. Don't expect anything to come out of it.

I want to be able to date because other wise i wouldn't be able to see my bf that much. Well if i had one.

Hey...I totally see where you're coming from! I started dating when I was like 11 =| I remember it perfectly...this guy(best looking one in our skool) liked me..and I liked him back...and then we started dating...untill I was about 13...then we broke up...well actually he broke up with me...that means that I was the one left heartbroken.

Maybe at that age I didnt know what love meant...but I do know that I really liked him. If I could turn back time...I would have actually listened to my mother about dating when I was older (I'm 15 now.)

Since that relationship...I've dated alot..but...No one comes close to the feeling of me really liking them...I just cant seem to let anyone in anymore...its kinda like I have a stone wall thats about 100m high that you just cant get through. I dont want to be hurt again...BUT sh!t happens...its what makes life interesting...so saying that dating is pointless...you're just going to miss out.