I would like yall's opinion.

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Everyone in my school or community says that I am not good enough from them and I am 14 about to be 15 in 2 months

Hm, well who cares what they say? People say too many things. You can never keep everyone happy.

I think that perhaps you should try to focus on your studies and your hobbies. Relationships take time, effort, and maturity. It seems that they are not going so well for you, so maybe you should take time for yourself now.

Everyone. Sure. That's self pity if I've ever seen it.

Everyone in my school or community says that I am not good enough from them and I am 14 about to be 15 in 2 months

If you are talking about flirting back and forth online, go for it.

If you are talking about a serious relationship, I would advise you not to.

How old are you tink? 13? You really do have time before a serious relationship would be able to go anywhere, and in the meantime, you could be looking past someone great in your own school or community.

In general, I think internet dating can be okay for older individuals (I'd say 18+.), but only until it becomes an exclusive relationship. At that point, you have to be able to actually see each other on a semi-regular basis. Otherwise, it just isn't fair to either of you.

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It is not that I am too anxious to see him It's just that I will never be able to see him. I mean he will never be able to come to PA and see me

If it's never going to happen, then what's the point of the relationship?

It is not that I am too anxious to see him It's just that I will never be able to see him. I mean he will never be able to come to PA and see me

We do talk on the phone but not often enough

I think that your not cut out to do internet dating if your impatient about meeting him... only meet him if you've talked to him on the phone, and known him for awhile.

Haha. Khary, stop it.

*shakes head*

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Originally posted by babytink:
I mean the distance between us is killing me and I feel like I am gonna die. So do we break up because of the distance?

By all means, keep it up.

If you have barely been with this person for two weeks and already the distance is killing you, then I think that a long distance relationship is not for you. Honestly, I think that both of you are too young and you should just enjoy your youth now instead of trying to carry out a long distance relationship. What is the hurry of being with someone? There are many other things you could get involved with or enjoy. Relationships can wait, honestly, they can. And I say that with all due respect.

My man is 16 and he has sent me a picture of himself I mean I do believe him but should I? I mean the distance between us is killing me and I feel like I am gonna die. So do we break up because of the distance?

to let you know I have only known him for about 2 weeks and thats is how long we have went out.

i think its not to bad but that ppl should watch who they talk to and make sure they know their true age and stuff...also someone needs to make sure that the person they talk to lives close enough where they can meet them several(i mean many) times a month

My aunt and her husband met online. They met several times before they decided to marry ( living in close states such as Rhode Island and Conneticut are useful ), but they're very happy together. She even converted to Judaism. If you set up several meetings, and actually get to know the person offline, it most likely won't turn out bad like them being a "40 year old guy." Just don't be dumb with the first meeting and meet them with someone you trust, first. That is, someone over twenty.

You dont know if the person on the other side saying that they are not 13 years old and a girl and they are really a 40 year old guy with one hand on the keyboard, its dangerous and scary.

I think that if you've known that person for a really long time, like a year, it would be cool for you to meet them and all.

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If you can fall in love over virtual potions class

That is freaking amazing.

To be honest that is exactly how I feel, I mean when I can't talk to him I am always upset. I would call it obssesion with him