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Picture of frick
Registered: June 08, 2004
Posts: 19
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Okay, I am starting an AIM group for those of us who are saving ourselves until marriage. If you are waiting and would like to meet/chat/become friends with other people who are on the same journey as you, please AIM me @ wait4me09.

I am hoping to start a weekly chat, or maybe even a chat more often than that. I also might start a forum online. I think communicating with others with the same goals as us will help us to stick with our plans and we can support each other. So...AIM me at wait4me09!

*frick*
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Registered: July 03, 2003
Posts: 163
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I am waiting till marriage. But I don't think I can last. Girlzruleboy1 that's my sn. I know it's corny
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Registered: March 01, 2004
Posts: 46
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I agree with everyone, i want to wait until marriage. to me, it just seems so much better, for many reasons.
Just my thoughts,
Emily
my aim is: oosneezy13oo
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Registered: June 14, 2004
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I added everyone who has posted to my buddy list. I still think this group is a great idea. If you want my AIM name, just send me a noise mail and I'll give it to you. When do you want everyone to meet, frick?
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Registered: January 15, 2003
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Wow.
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Registered: July 21, 2004
Posts: 87
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I would love to join frick and thank you for bringing this topic up. It's a topic that is often thrown out of the window when you get to High School, and I am glad that others feel the same I do. My AIM is mxchick1522 and my e-mail is nickel1522@yahoo.com if anyone wants to talk about it or has questions or ways to stick to it! Thanks again!
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Registered: June 08, 2004
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*bump*
Registered: July 13, 2004
Posts: 16
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It is awesome that you started this Board! It seems like less and less people are waiting for marraige! I remember in MIDDLE SCHOOL that people were having sex!! I can't stand it and I completely agree! I'm waiting for marriage, and so is my boyfriend!

If you are someone who isn't sure, think about only dating people who want to wait until marraige. That way, you won't be pressured. :-)

AIM: "shrtfreckldthng"
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Registered: July 06, 2004
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FYI my Aim is worthwaitin4777
Registered: July 09, 2004
Posts: 12
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also, my aim screenname is duckie clown8208. i'll IM you. my email is ticklemepink4477@yahoo.com. please e-mail me (anyone).
Registered: July 09, 2004
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"Ok I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Im not a virgin but I have decided that I want to wait until Im married. How do I convince my b/f that its a good thing. I mean, I know Im going to marry him but I used to feel guilty whenever we had sex"

Well, I know I'm a lot younger than you, but waiting until you're married to have sex is a really good choice. I know this may sound harsh, but if your boyfriend is not willing to wait until marriage, then who is he to control what you want to do? Waiting is the best thing. Safe sex isn't safe. No one is ready until they are married. I know that may sound really dumb, but it's true. You may think you are ready, but in the end you feel guilty.

"How do I convince my b/f that its a good thing."
That says a lot right there. If you have to convince your boyfriend to wait until marriage, it means its not the right time and/or he's not the right one for you.
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Registered: July 06, 2004
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Im not a virgin but I have decided that I want to wait until Im married.

That's really wonderful!
I deside not to have premarital sex back in like 4th grade. Me and my friends all agreed to it. Funny thing, that's not really funny, is that I'm the only one who stuck with it. For both religouse reasons, and becuase I dont believe in aboriton, and I never want to raise kids in a less then wonderful enviorment! My current boyfriend seems to understand pretty well. altho We've only been going out for 6 months. If he's the right one then honesty should be all it take to get him to understand. Sticking to it would prolly be the bigger problem
Registered: June 29, 2004
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Ok I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Im not a virgin but I have decided that I want to wait until Im married. How do I convince my b/f that its a good thing. I mean, I know Im going to marry him but I used to feel guilty whenever we had sex.
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Registered: June 14, 2004
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Sure. This sounds like a good idea. Sometime when I'm online (which is like every day now that summer has started) I'll send you an IM.
Registered: June 28, 2003
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hey.... i am with you...Yeah i made a promise to myself i wont have sex until marriage and i think being single is cool! I just want people to know that just because i dont want to have sex yet doesnt mean i dont like sex or it doesnt mean i dont want to be romantic or stuff like that... anyway, i am sticking to my promise.
Oh, hey frick, i dont have internet at home yet so maybe you can just email me : artwork_40@yahoo.com

Smile jam
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