Hey my names ryan, I've had sex a couple of times and I'm 14. I'm keen on peoples thourght and am wondering why do people think teen sex is so wrong?? I mean sex is natural.. so whats so bad about it.. Please reply.

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Kids are, especially girls, maturing sexually much earlier. I have heard of 7 year olds who have their period and have developed breasts. It's actually scary.

There are two year olds in some countries with breasts and periods. In has to do with the ingestion of too many of hormone-producing chemicals.

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Kids are, especially girls, maturing sexually much earlier. I have heard of 7 year olds who have their period and have developed breasts. It's actually scary.

according to the studies I've seen that's hormones that are in milk or other things like that (go ask FDA not me) which falls under my statement of "unless there's something in the water..."

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Originally posted by Ikki14Reed:

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No, but someone in their 20's is going to know a lot more than the average 14 year old.

Not necessarily...

Sure, but in rare cases would an average 14 year old be more educated than an adult.

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Originally posted by ampmaster:
you seem to be extremely thick, that's not gonna happen because they aren't sexually mature, Unless something strange is in the water that ain't gonna work. starting around 15 is where teens start playing ball and that is normal, natural and fine. Keep your rosaries off... well everyone else

Kids are, especially girls, maturing sexually much earlier. I have heard of 7 year olds who have their period and have developed breasts. It's actually scary.

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more people lost their virginity before they were 11 than they did after they were 18.

disturbing and mildly creepy, still not my problem, still not goverment's problem, and christian morality still needs to go back playing in it's own backyard and stop bothering us during dinner. Enforce your own morals in your own house if your kid is screwing at eleven that's a parenting problem on your part, not any one else's problem or buisness. Nor is it goverment's, beyond rape laws keep goverment out of the bedroom

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two 13 year old kids to be going at it?



you seem to be extremely thick, that's not gonna happen because they aren't sexually mature, Unless something strange is in the water that ain't gonna work. starting around 15 is where teens start playing ball and that is normal, natural and fine. Keep your rosaries off... well everyone else

Amp? People have sex at 13. According to a survey I saw when I was in seventh grade, more people lost their virginity before they were 11 than they did after they were 18.

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two 13 year old kids to be going at it?

you seem to be extremely thick, that's not gonna happen because they aren't sexually mature, Unless something strange is in the water that ain't gonna work. starting around 15 is where teens start playing ball and that is normal, natural and fine. Keep your rosaries off... well everyone else

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No, but someone in their 20's is going to know a lot more than the average 14 year old.

Not necessarily...

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no sex is natural. period.
Hell back in the day I would be considered very odd for being unmarried and with out kids at my age.

Sure, back in the day. But this is today.

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Are you an OB/GYN or Dr Ruth? I doubt you do either

No, but someone in their 20's is going to know a lot more than the average 14 year old.

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Say with me now slowly "C-O-N-D-O-M-s" or even "Birth Control" or go old school and wait till she's had her period and is non-fertile till her next cycle

Shit happens, condom, BC or not. It's not 100%, and "safe days" aren't really safe. You can still get pregnant.

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Enough adults can't do this that that is a laughable standard. and as we just said if we use "common sense" that won't happen

Are you kidding me?

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Right and it's called a lack of seperation of church and state. If I have sex with my girlfriend we can both be charged with stautory rape. No crime was committed, nothing bad happened, a perfectly enjoyable natural act happened. And we can both go to prison for it, why? because christians suck and want to impose their morals on the rest of us (some christians any way, most of you are pretty cool)

So you're telling me it's normal, natural, and fine for two 13 year old kids to be going at it? I hope not.

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whoops pardon me, I stand corrected

Either way, though, I don't recommend sex at anytime during a female's cycle without at least 2 forms of protection (unless you're trying to get pregnant, that is...)

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It's actually safer to have sex right before a girl's period

whoops pardon me, I stand corrected

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go old school and wait till she's had her period and is non-fertile till her next cycle

It's actually safer to have sex right before a girl's period. A girl's lining starts shedding exactly 14 days after ovulation occurs. Since sperm can live for up to five days, and an ova up to 48 hours, it's not that safe to utilize the rhythm method, especially for people with irregular cycles or those who don't know their cycle well enough.

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Sex is natural...for adults.

no sex is natural. period.
Hell back in the day I would be considered very odd for being unmarried and with out kids at my age.

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chances are you don't even know all there is to know about sex

Are you an OB/GYN or Dr Ruth? I doubt you do either

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And what would you do if you got someone pregnant?

Say with me now slowly "C-O-N-D-O-M-s" or even "Birth Control" or go old school and wait till she's had her period and is non-fertile till her next cycle

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Could you support a family on your own?

Enough adults can't do this that that is a laughable standard. and as we just said if we use "common sense" that won't happen

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There's a reason why it's illegal for kids your age to even have sex

Right and it's called a lack of seperation of church and state. If I have sex with my girlfriend we can both be charged with stautory rape. No crime was committed, nothing bad happened, a perfectly enjoyable natural act happened. And we can both go to prison for it, why? because christians suck and want to impose their morals on the rest of us (some christians any way, most of you are pretty cool)

Sex is natural...for adults. There's a reason why it's illegal for kids your age to even have sex. At 14 years old, chances are you don't even know all there is to know about sex. And what would you do if you got someone pregnant? Could you support a family on your own? If not, you have no business having sex.

for kids like you who think sex is just good and nothing bad can happen. for the kids who think that its alright to run around hooking-up instead of having relationships.

Pretty much, its thought of as bad for teens, cause of all the kids who weren't mature enough or responsible enough to handle it.
So thank you, for ruining it for all of us.

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so your saying its okay for guys to uses girls just to get sex even if it means lying to them say that they love her and so on just to get in her pant?? honestly if guys just want sex they should go and get a whore.

Nope, I did not say that. Don't put words in to my mouth. However, saying someone should lose their life for being okay with casual sex is extreme. Some guys as well as girls don't have a problem with casual sex. It does not mean that it is right, it only means they don't personally have a problem with it. Now, I have never had sex in my life, but if people want to do it, than that's their business. As long as it's not rape or someone is not taking advantage of someone else, than there is no reason why we should interfere. I will say though that I am not okay with a guy/girl lying to get in to someones pants.

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That's rather extreme...

so your saying its okay for guys to uses girls just to get sex even if it means lying to them say that they love her and so on just to get in her pant?? honestly if guys just want sex they should go and get a whore.

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I belive if any guy just wants sex out of a relationship should be shot in the head!

That's rather extreme...

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Originally posted by Boxx:

Not to mention the first time you have sex you don't really know what you are doing so its normally not as pleasing as after a few times.[/QUOTE] yeh thats true. More times you have sex the funner it is cuz you know what your doing.

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three wouldn't you want to do that with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone you truely love and they truely love you back.

yep. is it alright thatn if you love that person and you know they love you back and you want to be with them 4eva?. I belive if any guy just wants sex out of a relationship should be shot in the head!

well one STD'S,two pregnancy, and three wouldn't you want to do that with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone you truely love and they truely love you back.