Sex is natural, sex is good, not everybody does it, but everybody should...

C'mon now, if you can't trust George Michael, who can you trust?

personally i think that it would be kind of better 4 us to have sex ed. some teenagers now days really dont feel comfortable talking to their parents or even someone they thought would be close...about the virginity sittuation. on the other hand i have to say that it is going over board for a 13year old to learn about this stuff or even at a younger age but would u want to be 17 or so just learning the meaning of sacrafice?

Sex is not bad.And I'm sick of hearing about how it's evil to have sex before marriage.Marriage is just legal documents that have nothing to do with anything that I believe in.I do agree that protection is vital to staying healthy and keeping from getting pregnant though.Unfortunately my best friend is 13 and shes due in September.Obviously her bf didn't really belive in condoms.Theres nothing wrong with sex but make shure your ready.

dating: i'm down with it
love: ok first of all teenagers i don't think know what love is. loving someone is knowing all of someone's good sides AND their faults and accepting them completely n e wayz. u can't do that unless u know their faults and u can't know their faults unless u've known them for a while. therefore love comes with time.
sex: i don't have a problem with having sex before ur married as long as u understand that when u have sex with someone ur having it with everyone they've had it with. and sex doesn't have EVERYTHING to do with love. it has very little in fact i think. unless ur married u have sex for pleasure. nothing wrong as long as u understand and u can limit urself on ur partners.

you are right... i mean i have been in a relationship for almost a year now... and i am only 14 but i am wanting to have sex with him.... and i AM going to too.... also i want to marry him so bad..... we are already planning on gettin married after i graduate... but dating is a wonderful thing... if you dont date... you might just be giving up the chance of meeting the one your suppose to be with. Maybe yall dont agree with me... but that is my opinion.

lol thank you Amaris...I've seen it three times and it's kinda scary...

Lots of love,
Lynne

You think childbirth's a beautiful thing? I'm assuming that you've never witnessed childbirth, if that's your opinion.

I think having kids is a beautiful thing, no one is condemning that! But God thinks that fornication is wrong, that physical intamacy should be between to ppl. who are married, and as a Jehovah's Witness, we abstain from sex and dating (dating-unless your looking to be married.)
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I think dating is perfectly normal when you are a teen.Before marriage you have to be in different relationships to see how different people are.I mean if you only dated one guy & he was a jerk you would never kno how great a different guy could treat you. Of course you have to set boundaries for yourself and in my eyes ppl should be able to kno whats best for them & if they mess up they can learn from their mistakes.For now I'm choosing to wait until marriage to have sex but if 2 ppl really love each other and kno it then i guess they could have sex but i can't change what other ppl do.I would think that if they thought about sex they have already thought about the pros & cons.If kids wanna have sex they are gonna find ways to have sex whether they r dating or not. So dating should not always be related to sex b/c there r plenty of couples who date w/o having sex.

Geeze! You all swear that anyone who loses their virginity before they get married just hooked up with some stranger walking down the street! Yes there are risks, but that doesn’t mean you are throwing your life away. And how many of you are against abortion? "The baby is a living being from the moment of conception," and then you go and make the mother feel like a whore! Making her feel ashamed of the baby she is carrying! That type of person makes me sick. I am 18 years old and my life didn’t end with the birth of my daughter. To me it was expanded! She makes me smile she gives me something to work for and survive for. When I got out of high school I had no real plans. Go to school, yeah sure, but I had no motivation to get out of my house or make money. Hell, my mom took care of me. As soon as I found out that I was pregnant I went out got a job and started to save. I was still going to school, which made it hard, but I was still able to do it. My boyfriend did everything he could as well. My baby is now 11 months old and nothing brings me more joy then seeing her smile.

Please don’t make it sound like bring a new life into this world is bad or wrong. Timing may be off but its still a beautiful thing.

Tootles

Sex CAN wait...Why through your life away and risk getting pregnant just because you are having sex. Sex Really can wait..And it should.. It is something you should share with someone special in your life...Not someone you just meet.

I think itz odd that people are trying to make other peoples decisions for them
All this imposing beliefs on others is a form of control..and itz stupid, itz great youre so convicted in your beliefs on *fornication*, but geez, as long as you think of it that way, why have sex at all? think of it as ****ing, or giving head, and you cut off a limb, you limit and degrade yourself....
If you find it offensive that people engage in intimate activities before *marriage*(what is that, anyway? Just names on legal paper, you want sex to be emotional, whats so emotional about marriage?) then you need to untwist your panties, seriously.....all these ignorant attitudes about sex and intimacy are spoiling it for the rest of us.....

Thats right remember sex can wait!

I want to get married, and on our wedding night, I want my husband to know that he was worth waiting for, likwise for me, I want to know that I was worth waiting for.

I'll admit, on a few occasions I've wanted to take things farther with my boyfriend than they've gone. But i respect myself and him too much to do that. We both made decisions that we didnt want to have sex before marriage. That might seem a little old-fashioned to some people these days, but that's just the way we feel about it. I'm not saying its wrong for other couples to make the decision to have sex, its really up to them. Just, don't feel pressured to do anything that you're not ready for, communication is vital to keep your intentions in check.

-Steph-

Dating as I see it, is not an experiment with the opposite sex or the same. It is merely a way for the human race to find their true love. Some are not mature enough to handle this concept. Many people beleive it is 'unholy' to have sex before you are married simply because many people in our world today have sex only because they can, not because it means anything to them. Dating is not a pointless thing, especially to teens today. I have found my true love and we will be together for forever. Don't criticize me on this because no one can ever do such a thing until they have experienced what I have. Everyone will find that one person who you are not afraid to be yourself around...with that one person, they love everything about you, even your flaws.
I don't necessarily agree with telling kids that they can have sex now, which is exactly what the media and others are telling them. I think it is something that needs to be taught not along the lines of what diseases you can get and making people afraid of sex....because it is something that is shared between two people who love each other and this should be taught as this. It should also be something that is respected which many people cannot do in our time.

Ok, you know ppl. are all like JW's are a cult and brain wash you and such were robots, were not preaching from what we think, we are preaching from the Bible! Many go to people for help with their marraiges and such, but life's question's are answered... In The Bible! How can mere man (who is imperfect) tell you how to live your life? Can't only God due that?
I know I haven't posted in a while, you must forgive me for that, I due think dating is okay (for those who misunderstood me originally) but some ppl. date with cruel intentions, and aren't even mature enough to date. I think dating should be only in the mind of getting married. (If that makes any sense!)
Luv
~Mela

nicely put melzy, me and my gf have not had sex yet and we been dating for 7 months, and i havent' pressured her to do anything and she hasn't pressured me to do anything, we both have an understanding that we aren't goin to have sex until mariage, and we respect that of eachother.

I know that adults think it is bad for us to date at this age, but I have talked to mamy who dated before I started to. My boyfriend and I have a close relationship, but we would NEVER do something stupid to hurt one another such as intercourse. If someone truely loves you they would never ever ask you to do something that is not good for you at such a young age, especially not before you are married. If you truely love eachother, the best thing to do is wait, and see if it works out between you.

rrrrrrrriiiiiiigggggggghhhhhhhhhttttt. I think you can date without having sex, that is if you a fully commitited to not having sex. Once you are married, go for all the sex you want, but you can not have sex if you just use your mind.