I think you should have sex when you're ready. The problem is is that people make the mistake of thinking they're ready too early.

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jus do it wen u re mantall ready for t

Sometime around 2070 in your case, then?

i still feel early teeens (upto16 17) s too early for sex

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I like that you put that as an answer.

Thank you star

To Softball_chica: take the test better you know now then find out later.

To Harita: No kids aren't maturing faster actually they are maturing later it used to be common to be married at around 14. The thing though is most teens out grow themslves physically leaving the menatl component in the dust then hormones take over and uh-oh. It takes incredible will power to remain a virgin in what is today a highly sexually charged enviroment the gals at school who dress like prostitutes and act about the same don't help guys make the right choices either. (note: all of this is from a male point of view as I am male and have no idea what so ever the challenges gals have at this bothersome age.)

m 20 n m still a virgin.. its not by force its by choice...don u guys know an invention called.. th condom...jus do it wen u re mantall ready for t... physically u re ready by th time u re a teenager...

well..I believe the right time is when you can handle it. I have had sex, and went through the whole, am i pregnant thing....not a good feeling at all...I'm still late as we speak, but i'm too scared to take a test, I wasnt ready. Wait until you can handle it...I would never regret having sex though, because I very much so trust the person I lost my virginity too, i'm just MUCH to young to be a mother, and I wanna go somewhere with my life, a kid would hold me back...thats all the advice I can give...Btw...I am 15.

kids aren t maturin sooner nowadays... its jus th over freedom tht they get cos their folks re jus too busy to take care of em n teach em some morals.... not sayin they grow into adults wid no morals. they learn thru pain... they get hurt miserably cos there s nobody to tell em,,,, teach em....they get too much of exposure to evrythin... sex sports music... fun ,... entertainment partyin at a very young age..... parents shd act more responsible towards th kids jus givin th required amt of freedom n also monitorin em atleast they re 14 or 15...

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Originally posted by ampmaster:
When your ready to except the consequnces of that action.

I like that you put that as an answer. I think alot of people today, including kids, make rash decisions before considering the consequences of those decisions. I, myself, fall into that group sometimes. I think everyone does. I don't think this only applies to having sex. It applies to everything.

u at least have to be in high school and if u have a gut feeling that it is not the right time 4 u .listen to yourself

When your ready to except the consequnces of that action.

Daaamn right. This post is the year of my birth!

Euterpe is so my co-bitch.

It's called the enter button. It separates paragraphs when you have different ideas.

Well let me tell you my story. I have this boy who i love i mean it aint no,"Oh i love this boy!" love it is LOVE. I would do anything for this boy right now no matter what it is. And on November the 12, 2005 i went to a carnival with this boy and it was right beside his uncle and aunts house.N-E ways we went over there when there wansnt any one there, and at first he told me,"there isnt andyone here, we need to have sex!" and i was like,"no, Im not ready." so he said we can go and talk for a little while and i said ok. so we went to the Gazzebo and we sat down and i told him why i wasnt ready and he said please, please, please! and i said im sorry but i cant. I told him that i was too afraid of loosing it to him and him wiping me off like i was a piece of dust and not being a challenge to him no more. He said he would never brush me off like i was a piece of dust he would LOVE me until the day i died and the day he died. He also said that I would always be a chellenge to him no matter what. Then he asked if we could at least go and try it and i said ok. So we went back into the house and got on one of the beds. We got sooo close to having sex, but i said no and he respected me and got off of me. He still loves me just as much and prolly even more even though i said no. So you dont have to have sex to keep a good strong realationship, yea i do do other things that make me and him both happy but that makes both of us want sex even more. He would do it with me in a heartbeat if i would just let him, but i am just too scared of what is going to happen. My heart says do it because i am with the boy of my dreams but my mind says no because of the bible but i think it is the other way around where my mind says do it but my heart says no, or maybey not, who knows. but I have never been put in the posion to where I have this hot wonderful boy who wants me so bad, enough to have sex with me that i really dont know what to do cuz i have never done it before. Its scary. if i wasnt in this posion and was back in the 7th grade when i was an ugly duckling and no body liked me i would say wait until you are married but i dont know what to say now. Just, follow what you think is best for you and your body. If you want to keep your body the way it is then i wouldnt take the risk of having a child. but if you dont really give a dang about your body then and your family and the chance of them disowning you then go for it. But i care too much about my body and my rep. that i dont want to ruin it and everyone calling me a hoe. So... just make the right choice and you should never regret andything you do wheather it is by yourself or with someone eleseBE SAFE!!! AND NEVER REGRET!! CUZ YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN. treasure your body like it is something valuable and you dont want to give it up unless it is with some one who you trust and someone you will take as good of care for it as you would.TTYL8ER. BYE.

Ok. you don't have to wait till your married to have sex just untill you care about some one and you trust him it doesn't matter how old you are or whatever.you do what your heart believes in and nothing eles you don't have to do what I'm doing to be happy but you want to give it to someone that you care about and he cares about you in the end you'll both be happy. just use protection

When you're ready.

Which, in my personal case, will be when I'm married.

He can put a ring in your finger.

Then say "Oh, it was a mistake", take your cheap $20 ring (which he said was expensive), and leave.

Have sex when you think you're ready whether you're 14 or 21. My first time was when I was sixteen but that's just me. I'm not going to say I loved him because I probably didn't and a lot of the time love at 16 is bullsh*t but I cared about him a lotn and he cared about me. That was enough for me. Plus people make sex a bigger deal than it is. If you're ready than do what you want. Oh yeah and use a condom.

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Originally posted by calcoastsurfer:
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TLW meant that statement to be taken not as literally. She meant that you should wait for sex when you are married to the man you love and that he "loves you enough" to say that you are the only one for him.

You my dear are truely a genius...and obviously don't know the meaning of sarcasm and how it's used...

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Originally posted by TLWgirl09:
wait till your married then your know he's the right person case he loves you enough to put a ring on your finger


Umm...my bf put a ring on my finger? Glad to know I can have sex by your standards.

TLW meant that statement to be taken not as literally. She meant that you should wait for sex when you are married to the man you love and that he "loves you enough" to say that you are the only one for him.