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Picture of Big_guy
Registered: March 15, 2008
Posts: 1
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OK, Here's the thing.

I just found out that a guy I know is interested in both men and women. I am also interested in both men and women, I am still in the closet and not ready to come out yet. I really want to see if something can happen with my friend but I don't know how to bring it up. I've known the guy for a couple of years but it's not until just a couple months ago that we actually started hanging out.

The other thing is that's making me a little shy about bringing up the whole thing is that I am still a virgin and he is... let's just call it experienced.

What should I do.

(I appreciate any advice... thanks)
Picture of watifyerite
Registered: February 10, 2008
Posts: 35
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went thought the same thing with a girl i new she was like my best mate at the time i told after a lot of perastion then i asked her out dated her for a few weeks she dumped me coz she didn't want to ruin or firendship and now we're still best firends well shes mad me but that coz of sommat eles
ne way to be hounest i don't know
i'd tell him alaest


no more exusses
Picture of Uknown
Registered: March 16, 2008
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Tell him. You need to be honest in order to get anything you want and if you want something bad enough, go after it. If you are worried about it ruining your friendship I would still tell him, if he lets it get between you both then he wasn't a real friend anyway real friend is someone you can tell anything to. Take a chance =)
Picture of Canvas
Registered: December 14, 2007
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I know a bisexual girl and her friend who went through that thing. Long story short, the second girl realises she isn't bi. I wasn't really involved in any of what happened, I barely glanced at what was going on (have to study for uni, after all), so I can't give you an honest perspective, but I'd suggest just letting it go - considering how that other relationship ended.
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