I think I've posted this before, but i'm bisexual. Girls and guys I am sexually attracted to both. I however have a boyfriend, and I love him a lot.

This does not change that I'm attracted to girls however, infact in more cases than not girls are way more attractive to me than guys. (Sorry guys)

So 3pac... you wouldn't want to see two girls make out?

To you maybe. If I saw two gay guy making out... I'd have to change my panties.

Anyway, you have your opinion and that's fine, but you're going to have to come up with something better than it's "just sick, wrong, creepy and disgusting".

because its wrong. lets say you're walking down the street and see 2 gay guys holding hands and getting all mushy with each other. that is just sick, wrong, creepy, and disgusting

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Originally posted by LoveTheRainbow:
Why?

Why?

to me, it's a problem to be a bi, a homo, or an a (asexual)

i think what you have to think about is not public view about this bisexuality thing but , the kind of feelings you have within. is it that you have a strong reason for venturing into it or not. i think the world should try and view things from this aspect. the reason for doing something has to be tangible and real so that when the result surfaces, you'll be glad to bear the consequenses. i have being living by this philosophy and it has being working for me.

I completely agree that being a bisexual has become a trend. But I'm a firm believer in sexuality should be embraced. People are fearful of homosexuals because it's foreign to them. It's human nature to be afraid of something you don't understand that's ignorance but to be hateful that's a different story. That's when it angers me at the lengths people will go to to bring another person down. If you've ever been a victim of this it makes me sad. I say embrace your sexuality whether it's being straight, gay, bi, or whatever just be true to yourself. People who can't appreciate that your better off not bothering with.

idk i haven't told anyone at my school. i'm in 8th grade so i don't know how anyone is gonna take it. maybe next year i can feel open with people who will understand me... yeah this guy is in love with me and i like him back but hes homophobic so even though he's one of my best friends i don't know how he's gonna take it

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one of my friends is such a homophobic

I believe you mean homophobe, but you shouldn't let that get you down. I suggest trying to talk to her or her in a general way about the situation. People tend to change when someone they actually know is LGBTQ.

I am bi, and I know what it feels like, one of my friends is such a homophobic, it is kinda scary. But, I am used to it. If you need someone to talk to email me at sexybaby225@gmail.com

Thank you for the correction Celtique.

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Some people have problems with the opposite sex so they want to try the same sex because maybve it's easier to understand them.

That's not why people are bi.

But I see your point. People should be happy with who they are and everyone else should let people do what ever they want. if people are faking bisexual to get attention, just ignore them because eventually they will stop.

Fake bisexuals want all the glory and none of the pain. Although yes there are "far too many" there really aren't that many girls who pretend to be bisexual and wold then stick up for bisexuality in a fight. But then again there are also fake straight people who are trying to make boys/girls jealous by doing things with members of the opposite sex. Human behavior is puzzling sometimes.

I believe that bisexuality has become a trend ( a very annoying and degrading one) but I do belive it exist and that we really shouldn't hold it agianst anyone. Unless they are faking it.

Oh, and "by" is a preposition. Thank you.

I agree with Doc on this one.

Way too many girls are "bi" to be trendy and popular. I'm 99% positive it's the same reason many girls end up having physical relationships they really don't want: To try and get people, guys in general, to like them.

People can be ignorant and arrogant sometimes. It doesn't matter what they think though because "they" aren't you and only what you think really matters. There are three things you should remember when you come out.
1. Not everyone will be cool with it at first but most everyone can and will used to the idea.
2. If anyone gets out of line with their expressing of hate about it then go to a higher power. School principal, dean of students, headmaster, police, whatever. You should never just let someone walk all over you.
3. As Dr. Seuss said "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

honestly i havent a clue why people are like that... being gay or bi is not something you chose to be its just who you are...
i guess i never will understand people who think its a crime to BE YOURSELF??
kinda strange but i kno how it feels to be judged ... im with you there its just not fair!