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Registered: May 27, 2003
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OK so me and this guy have known each other for like 4 months now . Finally we get the chance to start dating , my problem is , he's four years older than me . Is it wrong to go out with him? I know i really do like him alot and im glad we're together , but whenever i talk to him theres that one question that pops into my head . . .should i be with an 18 year old? man o man im confused once again.  |
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Registered: January 30, 2002
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Rosy one I will have to remember that tweet.  |
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Registered: June 02, 2003
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Nope
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Registered: June 02, 2003
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Very true. Thats mainly what i was concerned about. Anyway, Ive discoved that hes into some things that i definitely dont want to get involved with so ill probably tell my friend im not interested. Oh well.
By the way Tweet30346 is now RosyOne
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Registered: January 30, 2002
Posts: 680
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Dont do it tweet. Most of the guys who are that old and want to do what they call date down, only want one thing and you know what that is. Besides hes 19 and he still doesnot have a girlfriend? He sounds like damaged goods. |
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Registered: May 27, 2003
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Originally posted by Tweet30346:
Just thought Id mention that i know plenty of 18 year old and would hardly consider any of them men! I understand your point though, it does seem a bit of a stretch. Ive been wrestling with the same issue lately. Ive been having some guy sadness (new term i just made up-lol) lately and a friend of mine id bound and determined to hook me up witha friend of her boyfriend's who is 19 (Im 15). He sounds like a really nice guy and all but im a little nervous about the age difference, and I KNOW my mom wouldnt be ok with it. But i dunno, i havent even decided if im gonna meet him yet..
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Registered: April 05, 2003
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I would try to find someone younger because you are most likely going through the same things and are on the same emotional level.
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Registered: February 08, 2003
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this girl from my class she's dating a guy that's 22. she's only 15.  |
Registered: May 14, 2003
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Just thought Id mention that i know plenty of 18 year old and would hardly consider any of them men! I understand your point though, it does seem a bit of a stretch. Ive been wrestling with the same issue lately. Ive been having some guy sadness (new term i just made up-lol) lately and a friend of mine id bound and determined to hook me up witha friend of her boyfriend's who is 19 (Im 15). He sounds like a really nice guy and all but im a little nervous about the age difference, and I KNOW my mom wouldnt be ok with it. But i dunno, i havent even decided if im gonna meet him yet..
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Registered: January 30, 2002
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Never limit yourself when it comes to relationships. But consider this, why does and 18 year old man want a relationship with a 14 year old girl? |
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Registered: April 05, 2003
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It's not illegal unless their sexually active.
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Registered: April 05, 2003
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I think the age difference isn't a good thing, right now anyway. If you really care about him, wait a few years.
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Registered: December 13, 2002
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as long as you both feel comfortable with it. and be careful of legal reprocussions. but if you're happy, and he's happy, go for it.
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Registered: May 14, 2003
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Do whatever your comfortable with. Just make sure you know your limits, and make sure he knows too. Of course, that goes for any relationship, regardless of age.
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Registered: December 19, 2002
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and in some cases like Joeys, its illegal.
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I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 17, which isn't really that bad I don't think. We're pretty much even as far as hobbies/interests/beliefs go.
I don't think age should be considered unless parents are staunchly opposed to it. Granted, age isn't much of a factor out of high school, but there are some people (girls) who are better uh, "prepared" than others.
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Registered: October 14, 2002
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I agree with jookly. You are the only one who can decide that. Just do whatever makes you happy and don't let other people get to you. Its your relationship not theirs. Tootles  |
Registered: December 19, 2002
Posts: 1708
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thats a pretty personal choice.
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